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RE: Venting
So I took your posts (to those who commented on them) to light and I finally sat my H down and explained to him (without admitting to faking) that because of the newness that has worn off since we started having sex, he needs to slow down a lot more and I promised to show him what makes me feel good.
The other day, I massaged him from head to toe and then for the "happy ending", I grabbed my vibrator and incorporated it. Man that was amazing! H came pretty soon after that and he remarked on how my "grip" was tighter that usual.
So thank you guys 
Re: RE: Venting
Ugh! You have got to admit you are!
IDK about that.
If you're not faking now, and don't in the future OP, I see no reason to tell him. Telling him you were faking would probably shake his confidence, and may cause a whole new slew of problems. Just keep guiding him in the right direction and showing him what works. As long as its satisfactory for the both of you I wouldn't say anything about faking in the past, but if things start to continually slip I would let him know that you were wanting more but didn't want to hurt his feelings. Even if you don't finish during the actual intercourse, let him still help you orgasm. Either with your vibrator or manually stimulating you.
I agree. I think if you've stopped faking and don't do it anymore there's no reason to ruin your DH's confidence. I think this would cause more problems.