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Sexy poll - threesome!
H and I started talking about this last weekend and realized we'd never really talked about it before.
Of course, I was on The Nest while we were discussing threesomes and when he looked over to the screen he saw someone's siggy pic and said "We could do it with her...she's hot". HAHA!
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Would you ever have a threesome (or, have you already)?
If yes, with another dude or another chick?
Would your H be into it?
Would you have any special rules (ie: he cannot have sex with her, but they can kiss...etc...)?
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I'm sure you already knew my answers LOL...
Would you ever have a threesome (or, have you already)? I have had several times but not with anyone I was dating. I had one with H when we were just friends back in the day but would I have one with him now that we are married... absolutely not. Do I wish we could... sure but that just opens way too many doors.
If yes, with another dude or another chick? Everytime it has been with 2 girls 1 guy
Would your H be into it? Yeah I think he would be
Would you have any special rules (ie: he cannot have sex with her, but they can kiss...etc...)? We had rules when we were just friends... I wouldn't let him have sex with her so that rule would stay the same now that we are married lol
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Would you ever have a threesome (or, have you already)? -- have not but would.
If yes, with another dude or another chick? -- girl without a doubt.
Would your H be into it? -- yea i'm sure he'd love every minute of it. we'll eventually do it someday i'm sure.
Would you have any special rules (ie: he cannot have sex with her, but they can kiss...etc...)? -- kissing and touching is fine i would imagine. no sex, for sure. and he can't go down on her.
Guess I should answer my own poll.
Would you ever have a threesome (or, have you already)? Haven't, but would probably do it as long as we found the right 3rd person.
If yes, with another dude or another chick? Chick, definitely.
Would your H be into it? Yep!
Would you have any special rules (ie: he cannot have sex with her, but they can kiss...etc...)? He cannot have sex with her ... other than that, I don't think I have any others.Bella's Bistro - My Dairy Free Food Blog
Would you ever have a threesome (or, have you already)? Have not, and maybe
If yes, with another dude or another chick? Chick
Would your H be into it? Im sure he would
Would you have any special rules (ie: he cannot have sex with her, but they can kiss...etc...)? It would have to be noone we knew, because Im sure we's have "buyers remorse" after and wouldnt want that embarrassment. And he cant give her oral.
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Would you ever have a threesome (or, have you already)? Haven't, and altough it's appealing I don't think we ever will. I just feel like it would open too many doors for either of us. I know people say, "if you're secure in your relationship... blah blah blah" but still I think it can really affect it. I dunno.. it just weirds me out. But like I said - it is appealing and if we could without me feeling so weird about it - I would in an instant.
If yes, with another dude or another chick? Girl.
Would your H be into it? He feels the same way I do - see above. So, yeah.
Would you have any special rules (ie: he cannot have sex with her, but they can kiss...etc...)? In a perfect world - he would just watch. :-P That would be my rule. But yeah, no actual penetration with her. Or well, now that I think of it - anal is fine with her cause lord knows that's never happening on this end!LOL, I told H the same thing!
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Would you ever have a threesome (or, have you already)? Not with DH. I've had a threesome with a gf and a random guy we picked up. And I've had a threesome with 2 of my guy friends.
If yes, with another dude or another chick?If DH and I ever did, which I doubt we will, it would be another girl.
Would your H be into it? He's always said I can bring home another girl and he would just watch, but I don't ever think I could in front of him.
Would you have any special rules (ie: he cannot have sex with her, but they can kiss...etc...)?I'm just too territorial and could never watch him kiss or touch another girl. It would be wayyy too much for me to take in.Would you ever have a threesome (or, have you already)? I would have in the past, but not now that I'm married. I've hooked up with a guy with another guy and girl in the room hooking up, but we didn't all hook uptogether. Probably b/c the girl and I are best friends and that would be way strange. Would definitely have had to be a stranger or an aquaintance.
If yes, with another dude or another chick? It would be a chick. Two guys seems scary to me. One weiner is enough!
Would your H be into it? I don't know. My H is very reserved sexually and he's not a super horny guy in general. When we were dating maybe, but now I think I'd say no.
Would you have any special rules (ie: he cannot have sex with her, but they can kiss...etc...)?I just don't think I could do it at all. I think in my brain I think it would be a good idea, but then if I actually saw a girl kiss my H is would break my heart. I'd probably burst into tears and the whole situation would be ruined.
I definitely "think" about it sometimes when we are acutally doing it though. Like pretend in my head that there's another person in on the action. Oh, wait...I think that is called fantasize. I fantasize about it. ha!
I also must say that I'm surprised at the number of people that said they would still do it now. Not surprised in a bad way, just didn't expect it!
This, exactly - except I don't know if I could do two guys...like PP said, one wein-piece is enough!
You figure out a way to make it work! It's not that bad.
Wein-piece! ha! You guys are on a roll today. Cracking me up.
Random question for Carly - when it was two boys did they make out and stuff? For some reason two girls is okay to me, but if I was hooking up with two guys and they started hooking up I'd be frozen in shock.
Would you ever have a threesome (or, have you already)? Haven't. I don't know that I would now.
If yes, with another dude or another chick? I'm not attracted to women so I would say another guy.
Would your H be into it? No, not with another guy or girl.
Would you have any special rules (ie: he cannot have sex with her, but they can kiss...etc...)? This is why we wouldn't do it- neither of us would feel comfortable watching eachother with another person.
My fantasy dream is to have 2 guys sole focus be on me. Selfish, yes, but that's why it is a fantasy. H and I have had this discussion numerous times. He would want the 3rd to be a girl. Obviously it would have to be the right person. Not someone we are too close to, but also someone we could trust in that sort of situation.
We haven't discussed rules, and I think it would depend on who the person was. I almost think I might be OK with him having sex with her, but only in that setting. Weird?
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Would you ever have a threesome (or, have you already)? no
If yes, with another dude or another chick?
Would your H be into it?
Would you have any special rules (ie: he cannot have sex with her, but they can kiss...etc...)?
He scores some points with that answer.
Would you ever have a threesome (or, have you already)? I have. But would no longer
If yes, with another dude or another chick? Once two guys another time a girl and a guy
Would your H be into it? I'm sure two women yah haha
Would you have any special rules (ie: he cannot have sex with her, but they can kiss...etc...)? I just couldn't do it with him...we had friends who were swingers even and eventually she went swinging without him. I'm too jealous of a person I'll admit it. Back then it was all fun.
And the guys don't kiss...they do not touch eachother just me heh Try liking one of the guys and not caring about the other and that other had a small wiencie or whatever y'all are calling it haha it was tough to not show biasness haha
"weincle" I love it! So gonna toss that one at J later
Would you ever have a threesome (or, have you already)? I actually have not. This surprises most people.. especially me! I've always been open to the idea.
If yes, with another dude or another chick? Both seem to have it's advantages.
Would your H be into it? He's had a threesome with 2 women in the past and said that it wasn't all it was cracked up to be. He has said many times he wanted us to have one.. We just have different tastes lol
Would you have any special rules (ie: he cannot have sex with her, but they can kiss...etc...)? I think I'd be weird with him going down on another girl, but other than that, I don't think so!Of course, I was on The Nest while we were discussing threesomes and when he looked over to the screen he saw someone's siggy pic and said "We could do it with her...she's hot". HAHA!
Oh that was so sweet of him to say about me!! hahahahahahahahaha
anyway....
Would you ever have a threesome (or, have you already)? no, never have and no, same as others, i wouldn't feel comfortable bringing anyone else into our bed. we're okay being just boring us - haha.
If yes, with another dude or another chick? n/a
Would your H be into it? no, i honestly don't think so. i know that sounds naive but... it's hard to explain. like as a fantasy, yes, but i think in reality he wouldn't be comfortable. but i don't know. pretty sure he's not into dudes and he has said during one of those "all guys like girl on girl" no, he doesn't because he thinks he'd feel left out.
Would you have any special rules (ie: he cannot have sex with her, but they can kiss...etc...)? n/a. i honestly don't even want to think about it! not my h doing a guy or a girl (other than me). like karebear said, it would make me sad!
That's a good point- if we had one I think it would be tough because you don't have the same connection with the third person (I'm assuming). Unless they're smokin' hot and you've been fantasizing about it for a while! lol
Nope. It was all about meeeee