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Going to the RE
So after another BFN, my gyn has now referred me to a RE. I made my appt today and had all my records forwarded. So April 6th DH and I are going to meet the Dr. A co-worker of mine recommended this Dr to me. She was basically going through all the same stuff and she is now 9 wks pg, so I'm hopefull, but also guarded.
DH had it out with his mom last night because when she was on the phone with him she made some snide comment about getting old and she will never get to see grandkids. We haven't told them the full extent of all our problems, but they know we've been trying and we've told them numerous times to stop asking "when are you going to have kids?". So I was oddly proud of DH for standing up to his mom and saying something to her. Although I don't doubt she will do it again cause she really is clueless sometimes. But I was kinda glad he snapped at her and said something back.
Re: Going to the RE
Well, Im sad for you that you have to go...but it sounds very hopeful that you are going. Im glad you have friends that you can open up to about it, and they can help you through this! We are here for you too
As for your MIL, some people dont know when to shut up. We havent even started TTC yet and my MIL is awful about it. Im glad your DH stood up to her though!
Sending lots of T&P your way, let us know how it goes! GL.
I know it can be hard to make that call for the first appointment, but I bet it's going to feel good to get some answers soon...and some help! Good luck, and keep us posted!
(And I'm really glad that your H said something to his mom!)
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