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A MM regular said her DH has little ways of letting her know he's been lurking.
How would you feel if your DH lurked here?
Re: s/o from MM: Lurking DHs
When you present it the way you did, it's not ok -- seems like major trust issues and serious schemeing... not only to read it without outright saying so, but to hint that you know what's said? Please. Grow a pair.
I wouldn't care if he read it. I'd prefer he didn't, but I wouldn't be outraged (unless it was weird/creeperish like above). I told him he's never alowed to make an AE (there have been times he's been like "why didn't you just say ____?!" when there's drama around, and jokes "If you won't, I will!" lol).
Oh totally. Although sometimes I think he was less than a fan when I'd use you guys as back-up for wedding decisions on which we disagreed. hahaha "Well, your point is valid, honey, but The Brides agree...." hahaha
Despite this, he has never actually been on the site that I know of. He just knows what I choose to share.
I do this too. There have been a lot of threads I've shown him.
NormsDad83? Way to fly under the radar, LB's H.
My Ovulation Chart
If it was creepy lurking, I would wonder why he was doing it. Does he not trust me?
Like others, I tell him the funny stuff that comes up anyway, like Ashlee's white chocolate truffle jiz story
How is it that my BABY is going to be 3?
BFP-2/25/11; 8 Wk U/S-3/25/11-No HB, measured 6.5 wks; D&C
DH has threatened this too. I just roll my eyes.
I also have no problems with him reading anything I write, but I'd find it odd that he'd want to lurk on these particular boards. I side-eye most couples that come on here regularly together...not on the local.
Big fat ditto.
Don't you have other things to read/do in the entire internet? Get off the lady internet.
DH wouldn't even know how to get to this page. Mainly because he just doesn't care enough to even try. I'll tell him funny stories and he laughs, but he really has no clue what we talk about on here. I wouldn't care if he lurked but I would judge him for it & question if it was a trust issue. lol It's not like he'd "find" anything. He would have "caught" me AW'ing his awesomeness the other day and when I bitched about his extremely stupid self running into a tree, he was already 100% fully aware of how annoyed I was with him. No surprises to be found. I'm brutally honest.