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Someone I used to have a huge crush on just got married.

karebear304karebear304
in May 2008 Weddings

I noticed b/c he changed his profile pic on Facebook. Looks like a gorgeous wedding. When I first saw the pic my heart dropped a little though - like "Noooooo!!!!", and then I remembered I am already married to a WAY better guy than him. I definitely would NOT want to be with this guy.

Why is it that gut reaction kicks in first and then logical brain takes over? Or is this only me?

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Re: Someone I used to have a huge crush on just got married.

  • shmoozershmoozer

    Dude... My ex just had a baby and I was sad when I first foud out.  When we were together, I thought he'd never been a good father/husband/provider.  Now I wonder if he is? I don't ever think about getting back with him or anything like that, just makes me think...

    So, no, not just you.

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  • KlassyWithaKKlassyWithaK
    You're not the only one. I sometimes look at my exes and crushes wedding pics and get a little jealous. Especially if the girl is gorgeous. I know there's not a chance I would actually want to marry that person though.
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  • MarylandWedMarylandWed
    lol that you were like "noooooooo!" and then remembered you were married too. i know what you mean though.
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  • beeeyotchbeeeyotch

    Its not just you. Im the same way. My ex had a baby around the same time I was getting married and I lost some sleep over-analyzing "What ifs" He then came to the wedding and I wondered if he'd object. He didnt. PHEW

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  • karebear304karebear304
    Thanks for making me feel more normal! I was all confused as to why I had such a gut drop reaction to this.
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  • *city bride**city bride*
    It's most definitely not just you. I'd probably sink if I found out an ex, or a big crush, got married. The only one I didn't mind was the one who came out of the closet.. Because, at that point, how can you be angry or jealous?
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