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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
TTC & BFN
Ok I admit it DH and I have been trying to concive since January, and i have done everything that has been suggested to me to get the baby train to move into the station so this month when i was over 3 days late with my period I was esatic and so excited to take the test and see my BFP that I had been praying for, but now stupd AF reared her ugly head and i literly want to sob. AF means BFN and I feel like I am failing at this.and DH doesn't seem to understand he just keeps saying "Oh Barbett it's ok there is always next month." or "maybe it's just not in God's plans for us right now, but it will happen." and now i just want to hit him while I cry. what is wrong with me?
Re: TTC & BFN
I know how hard it is to TTC and it not happen month after month. The thing is you have to hang in there and know that it will happen, even if this wasn't your month.
If you're not already doing so, I would suggest you read about charting and pick up the book Taking Charge of Your Fertility. I credit that with helping us to conceive when we did because if not I think it would have taken longer.
Good luck to you!
I agree with everything starsailorr said. Charting was the best thing that I could have done. It made me learn so much about my body, and when I was ovulating.
Good luck, it will happen!
FYI a majority of couples take 8-12 months to conceive, especially when the woman is just getting off of BC. you're not alone and nothing is wrong with you. try charting to keep track of your ovulation. good luck!
TTC since October 2010 | BFP 12/29/11 | RRQ BORN 08/26/12
planned | married | blogged
Well. That's rather lewd and crude.
Animals who reproduce a lot do so because their survival rate is so much lower. I do not think you really want to be a bunny.
Baby #2: Surprise BFP 9.19.12, EDD 5.24.13, natural m/c 10.19.13 at 9w
Not many people talk readily about their troubles conceiving. So while I'm sure it seems like everyone around you is breeding like bunnies, many others may not be having such an easy time.
Good luck. It will happen in due time.
Baby #2: Surprise BFP 9.19.12, EDD 5.24.13, natural m/c 10.19.13 at 9w
you've been trying since January 2010 or 2011? just another FYI, there are women who have tried to years to conceive and have not succeeded. so honestly, if you've only been trying for 2 months and are already getting frustrated, you've got a hard road ahead of you. try not to think about what everyone else around is doing - chances are, you know a LOT of people who have trouble TTC... they just don't talk about it.
TTC since October 2010 | BFP 12/29/11 | RRQ BORN 08/26/12
planned | married | blogged