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Juju request update

I can't say yet whether the juju worked, although I'm sure it's helping.  Big Smile

After the "we're putting you on insulin" call, they called back to tell me that since they are putting me on the meds to control my glucose levels, I'll need to come in 2X a week for non-stress tests (basically monitoring his heart rate for increases with movement) until I deliver.  And, that they won't let me go past my due date.  I've been hoping for a natural birth, and even a slightly overdue one - considering the overlap of my maternity leave and DH's summer break at school. 

This also means that I'll need continuous monitoring during labor, which is said to increase the likelihood of medical interventions.  If I don't go into labor by my due date, they'll have to induce me - also said to lead to more interventions. 

I was so overwhelmed by the new information that my work sent me home early- which I can't afford with the baby coming, but I knew they were right to do so.  I wouldn't have been able to concentrate.  I just feel like so many options have been taken away from me all of a sudden. 

Re: Juju request update

  • Oh, honey, I'm so sorry.  What a stressful/annoying way to spend the final weeks of your pregnancy.  Don't get too discouraged yet, though -- I've been on both sides of that equation, so a natural birth is possible.  (With Owen, I was way overdue, had to be induced, and wound up with a c-section.  With Ellie, I was two weeks early, and although my water broke, I still needed Pitocin to get contractions going regularly, and she was born vaginally/naturally.)  My sister had gestational diabetes with her first, had to be induced because of her BP, and she still had her vaginally.  It can happen.

    That said, while I very much understand your disappointment at the possibility of intervention (I was very committed to a natural birth with Owen, and was sad when I found out I couldn't have it), now that I've been through childbirth with an average-sized baby, I am really glad that Owen was a c-section.  Delivering a 10 lb. 10 oz. baby naturally would've been awful.

    I've never heard before that continuous monitoring increases the likelihood of intervention...that's interesting.  I had continuous monitoring with both kids -- as long as they have a wireless monitor, it's not that bad, though the damn nodes do get itchy.

     

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  • Hang in there. Childbirth is never set in stone as you've read from our stories. I was induced 5.5 weeks early. I had tO get meds because of everything else that was going on, but I feel like I could have handled the induction meds etc without. Plus, I went through the worst of the pit. without it. You just never know. I did feel robbed of the birth I wanted, especially considering I wasn't even alert when inducing was discussed with DH. In the end, all that matters is you and your baby are healthy. Everything you go through now will fade months after your LO has arrived. Please keep us updated on everything. I also didn't realize cntinuois monitoring increased things. I wore a monitor, non-wireless while in the hhospital and don't think that caused anything. Agree with MM it and annoying to stay in a good posiion.
  • I'm sorry today was so overwhelming.  :-(  Like the others have said, a natural birth is still possible so I'm crossing my fingers and toes for you!
  • It's frustrating when things don't go the way you've hoped!  I'm sorry for all the unplanned craziness!  Just think, what a perfect way to welcome parenthood!  It is almost always filled with unexpected goodness.  Hang in there, just a few more weeks!
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  • Perfectly said Jess! : ) 

    chayer227  - Sending you and baby great thoughts!

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  • Sending more Nestie Ju Ju for you! hope the next few weeks go well for you! :):)
  • Wow, I can't imagine trying to deal with all of that at once- I'm glad your job sent you home for the day so you could get a little breathing space. Keeping my fingers crossed for you that you're able to have as natural a birth as possible, hang in there!
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