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I guess I will be the first...

Looks like I am leaving you ladies.

DH and I split up Tuesday and are going through with a divorce. It's the best choice at this point.

And this is why you don't get married at age 19.

I wish you all the very best.

 

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  • I'm so sorry, I hope for the best for you.  You don't have to leave here though.  Good luck in whatever you decide and I'll be thinking of you.
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  • I agree you don't have to leave us. I am sorry and good luck. If you need to vent us ladies are here.
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  • I am so sorry to hear this. Good luck with whatever you decide to do.

    And I agree you don't have to leave us.

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  • I am sorry. Good luck with everything. And you don't have to leave us. Everyone hear has gone through troubles and it's nice to have somewhere to talk.

     

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  • I'm so sorry that you are going through this.  Feel free to stick around and post if you are up for it.  We're hear to listen if you need to vent, but we certainly wouldn't be judgy if you decided to leave either.  Just do whatever is best for you.  But, just so you know, we'll all miss you if you decide to not post anymore.
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  • I am so sorry. I'm wishing you good luck in your next steps. I agree with everyone else, though; this board is a good place to talk and vent, and we're here to listen.
  • I'm so sorry. I agree with everyone else, you definitely don't have to leave. Good luck with whatever life brings you and we're always here to listen.
  • I am so sorry about this. I agree with everyone else...definitely stick around.
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  • I'm sorry you're going through this. You are certainly welcome to stay if you want, and feel comfortable about it. All the best to you.
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this. If you need anything or want to talk or vent, we're all here for you. Please don't feel you have to leave, we'd love to have you stick around.
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  • I'm so sorry Sad  You are always welcome here though.
  • I'm so sorry you are going through this.  As everyone else has said though, don't feel like you have to leave!
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  • Oh Chicha, I am so sorry you are going through this. You are in my thoughts and prayers. We would love for you to stay. All the best for you.
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  • I'm so sorry! Seriously, please don't leave. We're a support group here, regardless of whether you're married or not.
  • Aw, Chicha.  I'm so sorry to hear this.  {{hugs}}
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  • Please don't feel like you have to leave the board. Having a supportive group of women in one convenient location can be a very invaluable thing. If it offers any comfort at all, DH and I also went through a very tough time in our relationship where we weren't sure if things would work out so don't think that you're the first to experience problems and certainly don't feel like you'll be shunned or anything. You're welcome to stay. I'm sorry you're going through this :(

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  • I echo everything the other ladies have said.  I'm so sorry you're going through this and please stick around if you feel comfortable.  This a great community of women who can support you.
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  • I am so sorry to hear this.  Please feel free to stay with us, but if you go, I wish for you to find peace in knowing you are going what is best for you.
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  • I'm so sorry you're going through this. Please don't feel like you have to leave as we're here to offer our support.
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  • Thanks ladies.

    Your posts made me tear up. It's definitely going to be a long road. I appreciate your support alot.

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  • I am so sorry that you have to go through this.  Like the other ladies said, married or not you can stay.  We have all grown to know each other pretty well, and are a great support system for each other no matter what.  I hope that you decide not to leave, we are all here for you!
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  • married or not, you're a part of the group. We're here to listen. I'm sorry you're going through this.
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  • I agree that you definitely shouldn't feel obligated to go. These ladies are an awesome support system and we'd love to keep you around. So sorry you have to go through this.
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  • I feel the same as the other ladies. I hope that you decide to stick around here, married or not. We are here for you either way. I'm sorry you have to go through this.

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  • I agree that if you're comfortable you should definitely stick around.

    Hugs to you and I'm very sorry you're going through this.

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