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spiicing things up a bit.
FI and I have been together for 5 years and have a wonderful baby together. 
We have great sex, but.. its always the same. Foreplay, missionary, then we finish with girl on top. Its always the same. He is ok with sex 2-3 times a week, I could do it 21 times a week lol. I feel like I am almost always the one getting it going.
We have tired diff posistions, that didnt work bc they hurt. (still healing from baby i guess).
So, how do you guys keep it fun and break out of the same ol routine.
I know they say " if it aint broke dont fix it" but I dont think applys here!
Re: spiicing things up a bit.
I know how you feel. DH and I have only been married for 2 weeks but we have been together for 7 years and sometimes things can get boring. I don't know how easily you can do this with a baby but we love have sex in different rooms in the house. I wear sexy outfits when I really want to get him in the mood. After you heal from the baby, I think trying new positions will help. We have a lot of fun with food in the bedroom and toys (nothing crazy just little fun things). Also if you listen to music during sex then changing too a completely different type of music can make things seem different (we vary it between R&B, country, rock, soft and romantic, etc)
Hope this helps somewhat, good luck!
Oh wow I you sure we aren't the same person. DH and I have been together 5 years this next month and we have a toddler. And it also seems like it is just routine, we used to be all ove eachother everywhere and have so much fun with sex.. I mean under the xmas tree, in cars, outside.. etc.. And its like now its in our bed, foreplay, missonary an then we are done... no cuddling no nothing.. At least you get it more than me.. I also have a very high sex drive and its maybe once a week, twice if I am lucky.
I don't have the issue of hurting , but I also feel like we need to spice things up. So I guess I am not much help but you are not alone.
The only thing that I can say was off for us is recently I basically jumped him when he got out of the shower and was nice to him, very nice. lol
I can relate. Feel the same way no excitement and not enouh frequency and we do not have children yet. Can't say that I have an answer.
I plan to try outfits and different positions.
This has some demonstrations.
http://www.fhm.com/upgrade/sex-advice/no-1-the-butterfly-20081103#pagetitle