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15 places kids should see by age 15

I want to acknowledge that I stole this from EmmieB. What do you think of this list? Are the right landmarks on it? Does it matter whether children see certain landmarks by a certain age or in their home country only?

http://www.cnn.com/2011/TRAVEL/03/24/15.places.before.15/

By the time I was 15 I had been in most states and in several different countries. I had seen the Vatican, the Coliseum, the Matterhorn, the Eiffel Tower and where Luther tacked the 95 Theses on the church door. But I have still only have been to 2 on this list: Niagara Falls and Redwood Forest. I've been to MA, PA, the Dakotas and AZ, just not to those sites. Hopefully we will do the Freedom Trail and Ellis Is when we go on our cruise this summer. I definitely think the glaciers in AK should be on the list. While I want to see most of the places on the list (I've been to Disneyland so I don't think I need to see Disney World) I don't feel denied that I haven't been to them. And I teach U.S. history. I think it's important to see the world to understand history but I think it is about more than seeing specific landmarks from a list. It's more about experiencing a variety of people and places, including in your homeland. WDYT?

Re: 15 places kids should see by age 15

  • I don't totally agree with their list but I think it's important for kids to travel and see the world beyond their little community. 

    I think it's a lot more about the travel than really WHERE you go.  I have TONS of memories from our 13 state 3 week drive to St. Louis and back when I was in 6th grade and we didn't see many landmarks.

    Travel's mighty expensive though and not possible for all families (especially the stuff on the opposite coast or not near a major airport)

    (BTW-your link is broken)

  • Unless it was within driving distance and had a KOA campground nearby, there would be no way my parents could have afforded to take us.

    I do however think that people of all ages benefit from travelling the world.  You learn so much about the human race (and yourself).  

  • Weird does this work? http://www.cnn.com/2011/TRAVEL/03/24/15.places.before.15/

    Very strange it's the same link and for some reason won't work in my post. 

    Rori, yeah I was thinking that a lot of families wouldn't be able to do opposite coast travel, too. Or even just get off work long enough to do shorter travel. I don't think parents should be made to feel like they're inadequate because they can't take their kids to an arbitrary list of places. It's usually not the landmarks that make the biggest impression or teach the most anyway. We took the train as well as drove really long distances a lot of times. And we went without a lot of other things in order to travel. We were not wealthy but people always seemed to think so just because we went abroad. But I'm not saying we were poor either. 

  • Agreed. Travel is important and useful, but also a luxury that many families cannot afford. It's too bad.

    I commented about this list on FB so I'll just briefly say that I don't agree with all their choices either but I like the emphasis on historical sites (though I almost choked when I saw they recommended Fenway Park over not only other more worthy stadiums [waiting for Sox fans to come hit me Stick out tongue] but several other, more important sites in the U.S.)

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    Agreed. Travel is important and useful, but also a luxury that many families cannot afford. It's too bad.

    I commented about this list on FB so I'll just briefly say that I don't agree with all their choices either but I like the emphasis on historical sites (though I almost choked when I saw they recommended Fenway Park over not only other more worthy stadiums [waiting for Sox fans to come hit me Stick out tongue] but several other, more important sites in the U.S.)

    Waiting for me? Big Smile I didn't read the list but hopefully Yankee Stadium didn't make the cut.

  • imagesm23:

    Agreed. Travel is important and useful, but also a luxury that many families cannot afford. It's too bad.

    I commented about this list on FB so I'll just briefly say that I don't agree with all their choices either but I like the emphasis on historical sites (though I almost choked when I saw they recommended Fenway Park over not only other more worthy stadiums [waiting for Sox fans to come hit me Stick out tongue] but several other, more important sites in the U.S.)

    I choked too seeing Fenway ..... The yanks fan in me couldn't handle it. Shoot, I got TOTALLY excited driving past the 'old' Yankee stadium before we left Philly.
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  • I saw most of those sites by 30, whatever I've missed, i'll make up for with dd. I was lucky, I grew up on the east coast and saw all but Monticello and Williamsburg ( farking EEKpensive for a fam of SIX to do) .... Why this list is east coast heavy is a mystery to me.
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  • I did seven of these before age 15 (maybe 16 or 17 or 18). This list is totally East Coast biased by the way, because most of our trips were driving trips (though we did spend five days taking Amtrak from NY to the Grand Canyon).

    A lot of them are meh. Fenway Park? I went there as a kid and the only reason I even remember it is because my dad was a huge Red Sox fan. It was lost on me.

    I will agree with the Freedom Trail in Boston though. I went there in seventh grade (which is when you study U.S. history in NY) and I loved every second of it. It was amazing to me to see Paul Revere's house and the spot where the battle of Bunker Hill happened, where the tea party happened and see Old Ironsides. It really connected you with history in a way that I don't think kids who grow up outside the northeast get. It was so alive, you know?

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  • I went to 9 by 15 and Alcatraz wasn't one of them !lol most were done in one epic trip to the east coast With my grandparents when I was 10. Still remember it fondly.
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    I did seven of these before age 15 (maybe 16 or 17 or 18). This list is totally East Coast biased by the way, because most of our trips were driving trips (though we did spend five days taking Amtrak from NY to the Grand Canyon).

    Yeah because people have a tendency to think that's where all our history happened. And I think that's something that bugs me, too. Not that it isn't important stuff but if you think everything that's important in U.S. history happened in New England you have a very limited view of it.
  • This list makes me sad. I'm 25 and have only been to two of those places, and one was within the last 2 years. Growing up we went to visit family in a small middle of nowhere town in NV and in 8th grade I went to Washington, DC. So until my honeymoon a few months ago that was the extent of my travels and I am totally jealous of everywhere DH has been as a kid. But as pp's have mentioned it was a luxury my single mom could not afford. I hope that when DH and I have kids we will be able to take them places, but I think going to places outside of the US will be more exciting.
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  • So sad that I've only been to Alcatraz =(
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    imagesm23:

    Agreed. Travel is important and useful, but also a luxury that many families cannot afford. It's too bad.

    I commented about this list on FB so I'll just briefly say that I don't agree with all their choices either but I like the emphasis on historical sites (though I almost choked when I saw they recommended Fenway Park over not only other more worthy stadiums [waiting for Sox fans to come hit me Stick out tongue] but several other, more important sites in the U.S.)

    Waiting for me? Big Smile I didn't read the list but hopefully Yankee Stadium didn't make the cut.

    Yes you!! Big Smile  Seriously though, I think both Fenway and Yankees Stadium are worthwhile trips for any baseball lover. But if you don't love baseball...? I don't think you'd get much out of it. And to have any baseball stadium on the list but leave off some other major historical sites and natural wonders that exist in this country totally baffles me.

    Also baffled by Disney. I went to Disneyland when I was 12 and thought it was pretty lame. Maybe there's something wrong with me. I don't particularly like anything Disney today and my kids will be just fine tyvm without going to anything Disney.

    Oh and I agree with passanie that it's pretty East Coast biased, but then a lot of U.S. history happened on that coast...

  • For those who haven't been to Disney World and have only been to Disneyland, you really can hardly compare.  Disneyland is smaller than the Magic Kingdom at DisneyWorld...then you have Epcot Center and the Safari park...there's definitely a TON more.

    I was actually surprised how much on that list was from the West.

  • i agree w/ pp, DL and DW are 2 entirely different parks. comparing them is like comparing apples to oranges. i did DW in 86 and DL in 87. i felt cramped in DL. DW is enormous ... even though it was just the Magic Kingdom and Epcot back then.
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  • LOL...I'm 32 and have only "really" been to three on that list. Sure, I'd love to see more....I've been to a few more of the locations, just haven't seen the monument per se, HA.

    As a kid there was NO WAY I could have seen all of those places. Opposite coast travel just didn't happen in my family. My parents enjoyed driving vacations...or renting a house on the beach or in Tahoe for a week. Ask me about random small towns in CA or where to hang out in Aptos/Capitola and I'm game. ;)

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  • In all seriousness, I have been to 7 of the places listed. But only as an adult. The extent of our travels as a kid was road trips. We went to Oregon numerous times, and down to LA a few times. I flew to Disneyland when I was 6 and didn't get back on a plane until I was 20. My parents are not travelers. My mom is terrified of flying and we didn't have a ton of money growing up. It wasn't until I met T that I went to the East Coast and started to love traveling. Now we have a hard time sitting still. :)
  • I've visited 7 of those places, 6 of them during my childhood. Actually, maybe 7 places during my childhood, 8 total. I'll have to double check with my parents. We lived in Ohio until I was 6, so I visited most of the places before I was 6. That's why I don't remember too well. 

    A lot of the remaining places are on my list of places to travel to, but my husband and I decided to wait to visit them until we have kids. Most of these are the historical east coast based places.

    I would be surprised if most children saw all these places before 15. A lot of Americans would consider themselves lucky to see most of these places in their lifetime.

    Also wanted to agree with the others that there is a big difference between Disney World and Disneyland.

  • I was very well traveled as a kid (and I was super lucky considering I had a single parent) and I had visited 10 by 15 (or at least by 17)...and I can think of others that I've visited that were not identical but served the same purpose, like Mt. Vernon instead of Monticello (which I may have been to and don't remember) and Plimoth Plantation instead of Williamsburg, and even Old Town San Diego and most of the missions instead of Independence Hall, and Meramec Caverns and the petrified forest instead of the Crater's of the moon (which I may have been to and just don't remember)

    A ballpark though?  Eh.  I get that it's our national pastime and all but, eh.

  • Oh, and one other thing...Kids don't really remember this sort of stuff until they're about 8, then you've only got a couple years until they can become really rude, jaded, teenagers, so there's not much TIME to see all these places in a meaningful way.
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    Oh, and one other thing...Kids don't really remember this sort of stuff until they're about 8, then you've only got a couple years until they can become really rude, jaded, teenagers, so there's not much TIME to see all these places in a meaningful way.

    This is why we're starting the "important" travel at 7 or 8....with North Pole, AK. :-)

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    imageMrs.BoomBoom:
    Oh, and one other thing...Kids don't really remember this sort of stuff until they're about 8, then you've only got a couple years until they can become really rude, jaded, teenagers, so there's not much TIME to see all these places in a meaningful way.

    This is why we're starting the "important" travel at 7 or 8....with North Pole, AK. :-)

    In my experience children under 10 are more obnoxious than teens about being dragged to see educational stuff. They're restless and just want to run around. Teens may be rolling their eyes and making snide comments but they'll sit still or walk around in an orderly way more often. Of course it will depend on the child. But it could be really miserable to try to see this stuff before they are old enough to want to go on their own.
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    imageEmmieB:

    imageMrs.BoomBoom:
    Oh, and one other thing...Kids don't really remember this sort of stuff until they're about 8, then you've only got a couple years until they can become really rude, jaded, teenagers, so there's not much TIME to see all these places in a meaningful way.

    This is why we're starting the "important" travel at 7 or 8....with North Pole, AK. :-)

    In my experience children under 10 are more obnoxious than teens about being dragged to see educational stuff. They're restless and just want to run around. Teens may be rolling their eyes and making snide comments but they'll sit still or walk around in an orderly way more often. Of course it will depend on the child. But it could be really miserable to try to see this stuff before they are old enough to want to go on their own.

    we're waiting because I want him to remember it.

    But I agree- kids can be obnoxious at any age.

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