October 2008 Weddings
Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

QOTD

Re: QOTD

  • This is not going to be deep, I am too tired to narrow down all the non superficial reasons. To me he is super hot and I have never wavered in how attracted I am to him. Embarrassed
  • He's my best friend. He's the one I want to tell about all the little details of my day. He's the one who's opinion I really want on something that's troubling me. He's the one I laugh the most with. He's the one I want to raise children and build a family with. He's the one I want to sit on a front porch with and watch storms come in or kids playing in the neighborhood. He's the one I lean on for support when I think I'm at my breaking point, and the one who helps me realize that I can go just a little further to get the job done. He's the one who's arms I want wrapped around me as a fall asleep. He's all that to me, and more.

    I can't imagine my life without him, and honestly, I don't really want to.

    Brie's Blog 10.11.08  The Top Shelf Bookshelf

    my read shelf: Brianna's book recommendations, liked quotes, book clubs, book trivia, book lists (read shelf)

  • He just gets me, even my wacky type A+ personality doesn't bother him and he just knows that's how I am.

    Plus he makes me feel safe, which is something I've never had with any other guys before him.  And it's safe beyond just physical, but like he'll always take care of me and one day our family type thing.

     

  • Here's the two main reasons I knew from the time we got together that he was the keeper for me... and remember... I didn't start dating him until I was 35, so i had, um, decades of dating experience prior to this Embarrassed, so I knew what worked and what didn't for me.

    1) From the very first time we spent the night together, I was able to get to sleep quickly and stay asleep the whole night. This may sound weird, but I was always very selfconscious when I was literally trying to sleep with someone, or I had too much in my head going on to relax enough to let that guard down.  I noticed it from the beginning, and never ever had a problem with it after that. And I knew I had never been that successful at that before. 

    2) He has always made me feel completely comfortable to be a total goofball. I never had to be on my best behavior or most professional or try to be the best version of me or try to be impressive (or at the very least, not show my goofball side, which i don't get very comfortable with many men to be). And one of the reasons this was particularly unusual is because I met him through work, so he totally knew my "polished/corporate" side first.

    And, sure, he's freaking hot, too. But that wasn't why the relationship worked. Just icing on the cake :-)

     

     

  • If you would have asked this Friday, I would have a slew of answers, but he's on my sh!t list today so I'm too mad to even think of anything.
    TTC since April 2009 ~ Unexplained IF 3 IUI's later....EDD 6.28.12 BabyFruit Ticker
  • imagePlumCallaLily:
    If you would have asked this Friday, I would have a slew of answers, but he's on my sh!t list today so I'm too mad to even think of anything.

    I needed this laugh.

    You people are too deep for a Monday dammit.

  • He is hands down my best friend and the best man I have ever met besides my grandpa's and dad.
    Shop my ThirtyOne Site anytime 24/7 www.mythirtyone.com/116821
  • imagePookums:

    imagePlumCallaLily:
    If you would have asked this Friday, I would have a slew of answers, but he's on my sh!t list today so I'm too mad to even think of anything.

    I needed this laugh.

    You people are too deep for a Monday dammit.

    Glad I could help.  I'd be willing to ship him up your way for a few weeks to act as your man slave to fetch you things up and down the steps to avoid any future slips. He's not good with too much more around the house but he could always have your television turned on for you.  He's good at that.

    TTC since April 2009 ~ Unexplained IF 3 IUI's later....EDD 6.28.12 BabyFruit Ticker
  • imagePlumCallaLily:
    imagePookums:

    imagePlumCallaLily:
    If you would have asked this Friday, I would have a slew of answers, but he's on my sh!t list today so I'm too mad to even think of anything.

    I needed this laugh.

    You people are too deep for a Monday dammit.

    Glad I could help.  I'd be willing to ship him up your way for a few weeks to act as your man slave to fetch you things up and down the steps to avoid any future slips. He's not good with too much more around the house but he could always have your television turned on for you.  He's good at that.

    Will you take mine for a few days??

  • imagePookums:
    imagePlumCallaLily:
    imagePookums:

    imagePlumCallaLily:
    If you would have asked this Friday, I would have a slew of answers, but he's on my sh!t list today so I'm too mad to even think of anything.

    I needed this laugh.

    You people are too deep for a Monday dammit.

    Glad I could help.  I'd be willing to ship him up your way for a few weeks to act as your man slave to fetch you things up and down the steps to avoid any future slips. He's not good with too much more around the house but he could always have your television turned on for you.  He's good at that.

    Will you take mine for a few days??

    Does he cook and clean?  If so, I'd trade forever.

     

    ETA: NO, I'm not Mystery2....I love my husband very much and we have a great marriage.  That doesn't mean he doesn't boil my blood sometimes.  And I wouldn't trade him for anything longer than a week....maybe two.

    TTC since April 2009 ~ Unexplained IF 3 IUI's later....EDD 6.28.12 BabyFruit Ticker
  • imagePlumCallaLily:

    Does he cook and clean?  If so, I'd trade forever.

    He does not cook well at all but he does clean a lot. He does our bathroom and dishes regularly. He also does his own laundry all at one time never leaving any stray clothing around.

    He will do yard work but that comes with a price tag of whining and 8itching about 50% of the time.

  • He is hysterical. Seriously the funniest guy I know. I love that he doesn't have to take himself too seriously 100% of the time. I dated a manic depressive shady b@stard before him and it is like night and day.
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
  • imagePookums:

    imagePlumCallaLily:

    Does he cook and clean?  If so, I'd trade forever.

    He does not cook well at all but he does clean a lot. He does our bathroom and dishes regularly. He also does his own laundry all at one time never leaving any stray clothing around.

    He will do yard work but that comes with a price tag of whining and 8itching about 50% of the time.

    The cooking is not as important to me as the cleaning, so we're good there.

    Les is the same way with the yard work.  He spent about 4 hours Saturday mowing and raking up the left-over leaves from fall.  That's when his PMS started.

    TTC since April 2009 ~ Unexplained IF 3 IUI's later....EDD 6.28.12 BabyFruit Ticker
  • #1 is that he's a goofball, and I need that in my life.

    I'd say that the other two reasons (other than the fact that I lurve him) are:

    I trust him 100%

    He's a good teammate

     

  • I can totally be myself with him and gets me! I can be thinking something and he says it, I love that about us. Also, he is awesome in the kitchen and does the laundry.
    imageLilypie Second Birthday tickers
  • One reason is that DH "gets" how close I am with my twin sister. DH might be my soul mate, but my twin sister is my heart mate and he is 100% okay with that.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • Besides the sex? I feel safe when I'm with him and I trust him completely. I've never trusted anyone like I do him. He's also super funny and I don't have to be anyone but me when I'm with him.

    Weigh In #7 -Fat and Sassy Em


    Welcome to the dark side
    image
  • He accepts me for me, quirks, mood swings, and all.  And because of that I feel I can tell him anything about my past, what's going on in my present, and my thoughts on the future.
    imageimageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker Pregnancy Ticker
  • One of the reasons is that he's really smart in the ways that I'm not but he never makes me feel dumb (or anyone for that matter). Okay, and another reason is that he's really patient - I have about no patience and I can be a nag and he takes it all in stride.

    Campbell James - 3.6.2010
    imageBaby Birthday Ticker Ticker Wives Unscripted My Blog
  • He's my best friend and just understands me. We met in September 2003 and by November 2003 I knew I would marry him. He makes me laugh all the time which makes being mad at him hard sometimes. And yesterday, he vacuumed without me asking him to.
    10.25.08
    Alexander David
    11.25.09
    image
    my blog
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers
  • His communication style. He is SO good as expressing feelings both verbally and through writing! We always joke he should work for Hallmark. I also love his sense of humor, his loyalty to friends, his professional drive, his eyes and the fact that we mesh so well together. As different as we are, we are a perfect fit.
    image
  • imageFutureMrsNAH:

    One of the reasons is that he's really smart in the ways that I'm not but he never makes me feel dumb (or anyone for that matter). Okay, and another reason is that he's really patient - I have about no patience and I can be a nag and he takes it all in stride.

    I just LOL about that. I'm the same way.

    10.25.08
    Alexander David
    11.25.09
    image
    my blog
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers
  • I feel strongly that my dad sent him to me.  He knew that I needed a new man in my life.  Drew is so much like my dad that it's scary sometimes. 

    I'm not the mystery person either, but I really feel like Drew has changed since we first started dating.  I miss that whole wooing stage.  He was such a different person back then.  I hate that he's become so lax in the relationship.  He is so supportive in everything that we've gone through that I can't imagine being with anybody else, but I miss his desire for me.

    image
    Mrs. Little Drew 10/25/08
    Blog
    TTC since 1/2010 - Dx with Stage IV Endo
    11/10 - 100mg Clomid + trigger + IUI + Estradiol + Progesterone = BFN
    12/10 - Unmedicated cycle due to RE not doing treatments in December = BFN
    1/11 - 100mg Clomid + trigger + IUI + Estradiol + Progesterone = BFN
    2/11 - Same sh!t, different month = IUI cancelled due to no response = BFN
    IVF #1 - Start stims (Follistim) 5/10, add in Ganirelix 5/14
    ER 5/21 - 13 retrieved, 7 mature, 5 fertilized; ET 5/26 - transferred one perfect 1AA blast. 3 snowbabies.
    Beta 6/3 - 15.8; Beta 6/7 - 21.8; Beta 6/10 - 7 :(
    FET - Transferred 1 AA blast 7/11. Beta 7/20 - 311! Beta 7/22 - 784!! First u/s 8/10
    *~PAIFW/SAIFW~*
    BabyFruit Ticker
  • He tells me no. And no matter how much bullshit I throw out to get what I want, he just calls me out on it, and still says no. I love it! He's the only person that I don't mind hearing "no" from.

     

    My overly happy baby girl!
    image
    image

    I'm a breastfeeding, baby wearing, cloth diapering, co-sleeping, anti-CIO Mommy
    Raising Bean
    Wives Unscripted

    Married my hero on 10-11-08
    Our bean was born on 05-19-11
  • imagePookums:
    This is not going to be deep, I am too tired to narrow down all the non superficial reasons. To me he is super hot and I have never wavered in how attracted I am to him. Embarrassed

    I hear ya! Dh just got contacts again, and all I want to do is throw him on the bed and bump uglies.

    My overly happy baby girl!
    image
    image

    I'm a breastfeeding, baby wearing, cloth diapering, co-sleeping, anti-CIO Mommy
    Raising Bean
    Wives Unscripted

    Married my hero on 10-11-08
    Our bean was born on 05-19-11
  • because he is damn good at hockey and he is a worse dancer then Chandler on friends and it makes me laugh.
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
  • I am not a spoiled princess, but because he takes such good care of me. Even though he snaps and can be a jerk sometimes, everything he does is to make a good life for us and now the baby. He always wants to make me happy when we make decisions.
    I heart Ben!!
    October 11, 2008
    image
    imageLilypie First Birthday tickers
    Trusty Gal blog|Trusty Tales
Sign In or Register to comment.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards