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would you be upset

story: he was 3/4 asleep when I left for work.

he has been on IM for at least an hour.

he has been on fb chat and not idle

i've not gotten a text, an IM, a FB message from him (although THANK YOU GUYS!!), nothing.

WTF. Obviously I am pissed. But would you guys be?

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Re: would you be upset

  • Okay, so I said yes, i would be upset, but there is a chance DH could redeem himself if he had something big planned and wanted to save the merriment.  So, I'm going to think positively for you that maybe he has something really big planned.
  • Thanks guys. I voted SS because I wanted to see the response!!
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  • Yeah, I voted SS. Partly, it'd depend on the day and my mood. But also, it'd depend on history. I can't imagine E not recognizing my bday, so if he didn't, I'd assume there was a reason. If I were you, I'd reserve judgment. I doubt you're living Sixteen Candles.
  • I'd be mad. It's not hard to say "Happy Birthday!" I'm sure he has something planned for tonight, but still.
  • I'm bullshit. It's not like him but come on.

    still nothing.

    Im thisclose to texting him if everything is OK

    I already IMd him "must be busy today" and have not heard anything back.

    ETA: one of my best friends- nothing either.

    It's funny. Too feel so loved by so many is a wonderful feeling, but when you don't hear it from 2 of the people you would most expect to...it stings. Maybe I'm being immature. Who knows.

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  • I voted SS because we have very different work schedules right now and I never know when DH is training, in a meeting or with a client.  So, our circumstances are a little different.  I would expect either a gift at work or when I get home though.

    I don't necessarily think you're being immature but I think I would also wait because if you IM'd him and he hasn't responded - maybe he truly is busy because I don't think he'd ignore you on purpose.

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  • he finally IM;'d me back

    he wasn't that busy he said...long story short, he has no excuse.

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  • Could he be the type who'd have something delivered to your office and not want to say anything til it's there? Did he say happy bday in the text? Or still no comment?
  • Or is he the type who'd just think as long as it's sometime today it's fine and he'll just tell you when he sees you?
  • Yes, I'd be pissed.

    And I hate my birthday too.

    Happy Birthday!  Hope it gets better!  DH owes you an AWESOME gift.

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    Could he be the type who'd have something delivered to your office and not want to say anything til it's there? Did he say happy bday in the text? Or still no comment?

    he finally said happy birthday but not until i told him i basically got birthday wishes from everyone in our family (aside from his brother and my sister in law who likely may email me or text me but not until like 9 tonight if they do, i don't have high expectations...) except from him...

    he could be that type, and i thought of that...but it's 2:30 and he knows I am leaving around 3..so i doubt it!

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  • Do you think he honestly spaced it this morning? It sounds unlikely, but if he was focused on something else he could have just had a bone head moment.

    I'd still be pissed, BTW!

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  • Ugh, I'm out of ideas why he didn't. He didn't say anything when you called him on being a slacker that could explain, huh?
  • Meg, that is probably what happened.

    And L...I totally called him out.

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  • Awww..  Sorry, Jackie.  Happy Birthday.  I also wanted to tell you.  I made potato pancakes last night...

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  • I wouldn't be mad.

    right now Erik has been so busy with work I've seen him maybe 2 hours a day - not that he couldn't take 10 seconds to call/text/im but I wouldn't get pissed.

     

    but then again, I really dont think bdays are THAT big of a deal  

  • Yeah, I'm all about my birthdays so I get it. I'd love to know if J came up with a reason or somehow redeemed himself.
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