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Tell Me How You'd Feel
I'm being a PW this morning, I know. But anyways, tell me I'm just being hormonal.
Chris got tickets to go to this concert this weekend in AC from a guy at work on Saturday night. He didn't even ask me if I wanted to go with, he just decided to ask the guy at work. The reason he didn't ask me to go along is because I don't particularly care for that type of music, it's some older blues singer. I figured I would go along and enjoy it, and we could get a nice dinner out in AC alone, since my parents are coming down for the day/night. I don't know if I'm just being hormonal and just wanted to get a night out alone with him since we don't get many of them anymore. Would you be a little upset if your DH didn't ask you to go?
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Ok so he got tickets from a guy at work and then asked another guy to go with him and didn't tell either of you this until it was already done?
Yeah, I would be upset. At least for the option for what you wanted to do. That seems a bit presumptuous for him to assume.
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this is how i would feel. but we also do things like this with work people anyway so i wouldn't think anything of it.
maybe he thought you'd want to spend time with your parents?
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I'd be bummed but understanding. Chris and this guy obviously have the same taste in music and the guy probably bought the tickets for Chris so they could both go together (even if he didn't say that, I'm sure he was thinking it)
It would have been nice if Chris asked, but I don't think it is that big of a deal. Maybe you should discuss ahead of time when your parents are coming to town that this would be a nice opportunity for the two of you to have a date?
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I agree with this especially since he asked the guy who got the tickets. It sounds like your more upset about not having a night alone with him then you are about not going to the concert.
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I think it's weird the guy bought Chris two tickets only for Chris to turn around and take him. The guy should have just bought Chris one ticket for his birthday and then one for himself. I wouldn't have been mad in that case but in this case, I'd be a little bummed that I wasn't at least asked - if only for like you said, a night out together. I have done several things I'm not interested in just because Nick likes it and its to spend time together.
This exactly. I don't care if Drew goes and does stuff without me, I just want him to at least check in and make sure that I don't mind it or that I didn't have plans in my head already. We have established in our relationship that we must check in with the other person before we go and do stuff. It's just a matter of repect for us and it works for us.
Ok, that kind of makes us sound lame, like we have to ask for permission, but it's different than that. It's more of a "Hey, this is what I'd like to do, is that ok?" type of thing rather than a "Can I go here with X" type of thing.
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maybe he does lol.
You have every right to be upset though. and I lovers you!
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