I think I got through to him...

BMWwife · April 2011

H just called me to tel me that he called the Urologist first thing this morning.

He said that they can't get him in until the begging of next month Huh? He asked to be put on the cancellation list though and we will make whatever changes to his schedule to go in if they call him at the last minute.

Its a start and Ill take it.

buckswife08 · April 2011

good..i'm glad he did that. i'm sure you've had a tough time dealing with his non-comliance on the issue. i hope that it's an easy fix and you guys can move forward!

Fraire · April 2011

I'm glad he called. Speaking with DH of a similar situation he told me that he thinks it's really hard for most man to admit something might be wrong with them. Therefore they might try to avoid the tx to avoid reality. He also said that just the thought of having a baby might scare some men even though they feel ready. I guess we(females) know that when its time. It's time! and we do everything in our power to make it happen. He gave me an example of us. When we were trying, I was ovulating on a weekend when he had a hunting trip scheduled and he didn't cancel. Well, he admited that he was so scared to be a dad, that he decided to leave ( that jerk ;-p). He admits that if he would've known how great it is to be a dad, he would've never gone. Hope that helps....