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could really use some vibes
Hey ladies. I've had one fricken hell of a week. I've tried to remain positive, but like they say, when it rains.. it pours. Well, it's poured so much here that a tidal wave seems to have blasted through and all my levys are broken.
After this weekend, the possibility of endometriosis, and losing the lawsuit seem like nothing.
The part that's pushed me over.. my cousin was found dead in his bed yesterday morning. I was talking to him on facebook on Tuesday after I got back from the ER. He didn't sound great, but he didn't sound bad either. It was a drug overdose, that they're currently calling a suicide. Not an accident. We always butted heads when we talked, so I kept my distance. I was trying to talk to him about getting counseling for PTSD, but pills seemed to be his preferance over people (he did 3 tours in Iraq) I felt like we connected the other day, and now we'll never finish our conversation, and it's hitting me like crazy. I can't even go to the funeral, or see my family to know how they're doing. I'm in NY, they're in Alabama.
I could really use some T&Ps or vibes or whatever you can.. I'm a mess
Re: could really use some vibes
City, I'm so sorry. You have gone through some really tough things recently. I'll be sending thoughts and vibes your way. I hope that things start to look up.
::major vibes:: city....
last nite H & I watched "intervention" about a young guy who suffered from PTSD after serving as a marine in Iraq...his vice was alcohol. It's so sad, they serve our country and then when they come home, some have to deal with those problems...just not fair.
I'm really thinking / praying for you for things to look up, and also for you and your family dealing with this great loss.
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