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Travel without child

We are so looking forward to next week, but I'm getting a little nervous about being away from Abby for 8 days. She is totally in good hands with my Mom.  We have calling cards (cell phones can't be used) and will use Skype.  However, I'm wondering if Abby sees us on the computer and can't touch us she'll be more upset.  Does anyone have good experience with this? 

 She's used to one of us being gone because Tim travels a lot for work, but not necessarily both of us.  And she LOVES her MiMi...

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Re: Travel without child

  • Yay!! Have so much fun. My suggestion... only skype or talk to Abby when she is well rested. Luke spends the night at my parents once a week and our weeks are so hectic that sometimes it seems like I don't see him for days. There have been a few times where I've talked to him on the phone when he is tired and he has MELTED down and just screams Mommy.

    But, when I talk to him when he's rested, he seems to do fine. We video chat with Daddy while he's at work and when I used to do my Master's classes we'd video chat while I was at school, that always was super fun. But, keep the tired thing in mind. She is going to miss you more when she is tired. 

    Have soooo much fun!!!

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  • I have no advice, but will be eager to hear how it goes.  We'll be in the same boat in Hawaii in 2 months and I'm going to want to video chat a few times to see my little one, but I don't want it to make things worse for my parents.

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    We're going to the Bahamas in the month, and I get a little more nervous as it gets closer.  I don't think we'll skype, but I wonder about the phone - will it upset him, is it just better for him to not talk to us?  I wonder about a baby's sense of time - does he know whe're gone for 5 days or will it just feel like a long overnight.  I'm also eager to hear how it goes!
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  • I have no advice, but I am jealous of all you ladies who get to go on baby-free vacations.  I would NEVER leave Ridley with DHs mom and my mom lives in FL.  BOO!
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  • I don't have any advice either, but want to say that I hope you all have fabluous trips and everything goes well with the LOs back home.

    We are going away for 1 night without Eli next month (first time since he was born!) and will talk with him over the phone, but 1 night shouldn't be a big deal since grandparents have put him to bed and gotten him up in the morning before.

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  • I don't have much advice either, since the longest we've left Owen has been three days, but I also wanted to say that I'm jealous.  I would miss my kids desperately, but I really would love a good, hot, swim-up bar type vacation.  (If I could go on one and bring my parents to always babysit, I suppose that would be a good compromise!)
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  • Have fun and let us know how it goes! DH and I are taking a long weekend away in June and I'm debating whether to Skype or not as well. I almost feel like she'll do better if she doesn't see me (this is already true for when DH is trying to keep her entertained and I'm in the house with them).
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  • We've used Skype in the past for Brielle and her mom. At the time she was in her early 2s and honestly getting her to sit still for a conversation with her mom didn't really work. She would sit for a few minutes and then take off, leaving me to Skype with her mom. Huh? I know my boss really liked being able to see her baby, but as far at Brielle was concerned, she didn't seem to really understand it. The phone went much the same way. She is still too busy to talk very long with her mama. She is also used to being under someone else's care without Mama around, so for Brielle, Skype was an interruption in her playtime. She never got upset, she would just wander off...

    That being said, even with those outcomes, I would still try to Skype and call if I were going on a vacation without Delia. I would need to see her, even if I trusted the caregiver's completely, I would just want to see my baby...

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