Let's say you're going to a wedding where you want to look nice, but you have a big ugly bruise on your leg, and it will definitely show. Does this bother you or not? Do you try to cover it up?
I'm just wondering how most people feel about their bruises. When I was younger, I never cared. I seem to get bruises quite easily on my legs, and I just figured they were a part of life. I had this one bruise that never fully faded for a few years and people would comment on it. My feeling was always "haha, isn't that funny that that bruise is still there?" But I guess the people who were commenting probably thought it was ugly.
Now that I'm older, and I don't show my legs very much, when it comes time for me to wear a dress but I also happen to have a bruise, I feel really annoyed toward the bruise. If I know I need to wear a dress for an event coming up, I will have to remind myself to be extra careful so as not to carelessly bang my knee against my desk, which I seem to do all the time. Which I did, just now
And it annoyed me enough to write this post, especially since I plan to wear a dress this coming weekend!
Re: Bruises
I don't even think twice about showing my legs when I have bruises (in fact, I'm doing so right now at work). I pretty much always have bruises because: a) I'm clumsy; and b) I bruise easily. I looked quickly and I currently have 5 bruises. They're pretty light and not too visible right now, but even if they were, I'd still bare my legs.
I don't think people commenting on your bruises are grossed out by them or trying to tell you they think they're ugly. They probably just thought it looked like it hurt and were curious about it. I get that all the time. The problem is, 90% of the time I can't even remember how I got a particular bruise.
I also bruise easily (and often) and never even remember how I got most of the bruises. I don't usually worry about showing my legs when they're bruised unless the bruise is particularly huge and/or dark, but I seem to mostly get those on my upper thighs and dresses cover them anyway. Otherwise, I just run with it, because if I avoided dresses every time I had a bruise, I'd never wear a dress again. I'm a clumsy mess, apparently.
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Thanks for the responses, I'm glad I'm not totally crazy for thinking about my bruises!
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