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If you and DH watch porn together
Do you rent movies, buy them, or watch porn on the internet?
DH and I want to spice up our sex life a bit by watching porn together. I would rather watch it online than buy or rent vids and have them laying around the house for numerous reasons. I'm wondering if I'm going to get a million viruses if I download porn online. I have McAfee but I don't know anything about how well that covers me...
Re: If you and DH watch porn together
We don't watch it together, but FH has gotten real bad viruses from some sites before. I would stay away from free sites, even if you do have McAfee.
One option that is out there is subscribe-able sites. I think it is reasonable to assume that since they want your continued business, they would not give you viruses when you stream it.
Also, make sure the "flavor" of porn is something that works for you both. So much of what is out there is geared toward the gratification of men. Obviously that is a whole 'nother topic, but just something to keep in mind.
WTG for being different and spicing things up!
We usually watch it together on youporn.com
It's streaming so we don't have to download anything or worry about viruses. He knows what flavor he likes. I'm still deciding what flavors I like. Enjoy!
We have yet to watch porn together, we're just into different things.
He likes group sex and black ladies and I like kink.com!
Not really things that are romantic that would wanna enjoy together!
Watching porn together, or at all, is terrible for your relationship. Keep other people out of your sex life!
Hubby and I have watched some together, most of which we purchased in dvd form. Our go-to site is AdamEve.com, a super site with everything from movies to toys to lingerie to condoms and lube. They will let you "rent" movies and download them to your computer. You can pay for 2, 7, or 30 days, starting at $4. We haven't done this, but it seems like a good way to try without as much commitment.
Hope you have fun!
It's really sad that you feel that way, but that's not what the OP asked. Watching porn together or alone will absolutely NOT ruin an otherwise healthy relationship. My husband and I have been together almost 12 years and know couples older that watch porn or are involved in the business. It's up to you whether or not you watch it, but don't assert your close-minded view on others.
Maybe it's terrible for YOUR sex life, but others manage to function just fine with porn added to their sexual repertoire. Don't be so high and mighty.
OP: I would recommend subscribing to a website that features content that you like, whatever that content may be. Much safer than trying to find the free stuff, and then you don't have porn DVDs kicking around the house.