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Wedding 6.18.04 Cole 11.20.06 Gavin 3.31.08 Parker 07.15.10 Logan 04.03.12
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Chemical Pregnancy
Went to a dating u/s today and found out that there was never a baby. If anyone has any advice/pros and cons of a d&c that would be great. The midwife said it was up to me and I had a 50% chance of having an emergency d&c if we tried letting it happen naturally.
Please don't post anything on fb we haven't had the chance to tell everyone yet.
Wedding 6.18.04 Cole 11.20.06 Gavin 3.31.08 Parker 07.15.10 Logan 04.03.12
Re: Chemical Pregnancy
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I'm so sorry.
I did a D&C. It was simple and quick-not a procedure anyone enjoys but it was the easiest part of the loss. I m/c at 10 weeks and it was suggested by my OB so I just took his advice.
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So sorry.
I've went through the same thing and my doctor recommended letting everything happen naturally, well after two months of horrible pain and bleeding I had to have a D&C. I would recommend D&C it was not near as bad as the terrible cramps and bleeding for two months straight.
Good luck on what you decide, once again so sorry.
Thoughts and Prayers your way!!
I am so sorry!
I'm sorry. I can tell you my sister too had the same thing and choose to wait. After a few weeks, she called me at work crying bc she was bleeding so bad she would literally drip after changing five minutes previously. She called the Dr and we had to race to the ER in the middle of the blizzard and by the time we made it she was leaking all over. Obviously this kind of thing doesn't happen to everyone and I'm not saying it to scare you, but if I was dealing with this type of thing, I would would want to be informed. Luckily she worked from home so it wasn't as big of an issue as it would be if she were working in an office setting. Good luck whatever you decide and sending nestie vibes for you for next time:)