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The Big O

We need to spice up this board so here is a Big O poll that was inspired by my local board.

Note: We can keep this completely annonymous if you don't feel like discussing it.

Edit:  How comfortable are you talking about your sex life?

[Poll]
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Re: The Big O

  • I have never felt comfortable discussing sex.  It has always been awkward for me to talk about it.  I think it's different talking about it on this board because I feel that I won't be judged here.  I'm pretty comfortable talking about those kinds of things with you all.
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  • i agree, i don't feel like there'd be any judging here...

    it's easy for me to reach the big O multiple ways multiple times...and that's just been w/ don.  guys before that i never really did i learned.

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  • Im an open book I don't care :-)

    With Toby I O at the drop of a hat...its wonderful.

    I have learned though that either guys have it or they don't...or maybe they are just selfish and don't care?

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    Im an open book I don't care :-)

    With Toby I O at the drop of a hat...its wonderful.

    I have learned though that either guys have it or they don't...or maybe they are just selfish and don't care?

    This, agree 100%.  That being said, H definitely has it and I am a lucky girl!

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  • I also don't care discussing it.

    Greg also has it:)

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  • I voted only through foreplay or oral because that's the easiest way for it to happen. Its possible during sex, but there has to be a TON of foreplay beforehand and only certain positions work.
  • As long as I'm talking about it with friends (anyone but relatives, old people, etc.) I can talk about it all day.

    I can O through foreplay or sex.  no oral.  I think I might be the exception out there (J tells me I am) but I just don't like it.....  And it's not him, there have been others in the past, and still does nothing for me.  I'd rather just get right to it.

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  • I checked foreplay and oral (thought I was tempted to check the last one just because Big Smile). I had a sex induced orgasm once. We've tried to repeat it. Other than H, I've only had one other guy give me an O. The rest have been self-induced Os.
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    I checked foreplay and oral (thought I was tempted to check the last one just because Big Smile). I had a sex induced orgasm once. We've tried to repeat it. Other than H, I've only had one other guy give me an O. The rest have been self-induced Os.

    I kind of prefer the self-induced Os.  DH can be a little heavy-handed (which is fine leading up, but just as it hits is too much).  Despite repeated efforts to get him to lighten up, he hasn't figured it out just yet. 

    Plus, there's something to be said for drawing it out. Wink

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  • Why has noone mentioned BOB?  I must be the only one.  I love him and need him every time.  DH loves him.  I owe him my entire sexual life.  Not an option on the survey, so I didn't answer... 
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    Why has noone mentioned BOB?  I must be the only one.  I love him and need him every time.  DH loves him.  I owe him my entire sexual life.  Not an option on the survey, so I didn't answer... 

    BOB?? I'm sure this is an acrotnm and when you mention it I will feel dumb. So go ahead and make me feel dumb what is a BOB?

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    imagebrew311:
    Why has noone mentioned BOB?  I must be the only one.  I love him and need him every time.  DH loves him.  I owe him my entire sexual life.  Not an option on the survey, so I didn't answer... 

    BOB?? I'm sure this is an acrotnm and when you mention it I will feel dumb. So go ahead and make me feel dumb what is a BOB?

    i dont know what BOB is either

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    BOB=battery operated buddy aka vibrator

    I have a couple different toys but we rarely use them. Weird probably but it just doesn't work out, when you're trying to be half quiet and hurry up because you're tired and never know when somebody is going to know on the door, you use your time wisely.

  • Yup! knew I would feel dumb after knowing the answer.

    Thanks ladies!

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  • yep i feel dumb too now
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  • I was like What about BOB?

    I can achieve through oral and sex.  I was not able to through intercourse until recent years. 

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