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It's official (TM2-Related)
I just saw this posted on the entertainment board. Apparently it's now official & a matter of public record that Leah & Corey from TM2 are getting divorced.
http://wvgazette.com/News/201104151026
If you go to that website, scroll to the bottom of the divorce list. They're second to last. Am I nuts for being legitimately bummed out about this? Weren't they 10-10ers too?
*sara & clinton*
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Re: It's official (TM2-Related)
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How sad. It's all over the gossip mags right now too. Some say she did it, some say he did. I still find it hard to believe that with all the resources available to them because of the show that they would end the marriage so quickly.
Also in the magazines but on a brighter note, Maci and Kyle (Teen Mom) are apparently engaged.
I just watched the unseen moments last night! This is so sad I loved those 2!
This totally bums me out. I was rooting for them but I love that Maci and Kyle are engaged!
Missing our little turkey.
Estimated Due Date 11/13/12 | Natural Miscarriage 4/17/12
Me too!!
Say it aint so! This makes me sad, but she did seem really unsure about it right before the wedding.
I just don't understand how couples can give up so easily. A friend of a friend has only been married since the end of July and filed for divorce last month; her and her soon-to-be ex hubby haven't even been living together for the last 5 months and are both dating different people. It just doesn't make sense to me.
I just finished reading this book called "Recipes for a Perfect Marriage" (it sounds like a self help book, but it's not, it's a novel) and the main message in this book was that marriage is a commitment saying that you will always be with that person; it says you don't always have to love that person 100%, that there will be times when you want out perhaps, but that you commited yourself to this person for the rest of your life so you need to own up to your commitment and really work at it. I knew this prior to reading the book, but afterwards it has really stuck, and made me really not respect people who give up so easily.
I don't watch Teen Mom, but I do think some people spend a lot of time focusing on the wedding, and not as much on the marriage that follows. Certainly not as much as they should, anyway. I have no idea what the specifics are with your friends, (and this isn't directed at them specifically), but personality transplants do not occur spontaneously with marriage. The things that were bad about your relationship or the bad traits that your mate had before the wedding are still bad for your relationship after, just harder to ignore.
With that said, if you realize you made a mistake in your marriage, I think it's a heck of a lot better to figure it out sooner rather than later. (Provided it's an actual mistake, and not a "marriage is HARD, y'all" *gum snap*)
lol that made me laugh.
I totally agree with this too, "...I do think some people spend a lot of time focusing on the wedding, and not as much on the marriage that follows."
My friend of a friend just shouldn't have gotten married to begin with. I remember her telling me right before I got married "enjoy the lovey dovey stuff now because it doesn't last" this is when she was married for only 2 months! Her soon ex hubby proposed to her to basically get her to stop b*tching about it but expected a long engagement. Instead, she planned a wedding for 5 months after he proposed. So I don't think he was ready and she is just kind of a crazy biatch. Apparently on their honeymoon, they got into a fight and she spit in his face! If that isn't true love, I don't know what is lol jk
Yeah, that never works. Even before you factor in bodily fluids. The ultimatum thing can backfire like whoa, because then you may have a spouse who resents you. And who really wants to be married to someone who had to be coerced into marrying you?
It's a sad situation, though. Because you hate to see your friends go through a divorce. Even if they're crazy biatches, heh. (I had a friend like that, too - they got married in May, by October, he'd moved out, and by the following May they were finalizing their divorce. Apparently, he didn't realize that cray-cray is forever.)