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Position ideas?

So this is awkward to ask, but help is needed. Both my SO and I are on the heavier side. We've been working together to lose weight and it's going well. However, in the meantime, we can't really find any positions that work other than cowgirl. 

Also, I'm still recovering from knee surgery last year and it would be GREAT to have a position where I can let him take charge a bit more so I don't keep pulling those muscles. 

Maybe TMI... sorry! I really am... but we really could use some fresh ideas! We've been trying things and talking, but are just having no luck. Can't hurt to ask I guess.

Thank you so much in advance!  

Re: Position ideas?

  • What about spooning?

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  • Have you tried doggie style? If it doesnt hurt your knee.... If it does you can always try it standing up... with you leaning over something like the bed. You could also try sitting in his lap... he stretches out his legs and you sit on his lap and cross your legs around his back... we havent tried that one but we would like to. I am not a sex expert at all... but I read Cosmo magazine alot! Another you could try is ind of like missionary except he kneels in front of you and you put your legs on his shoulders. That was he isn't actually laying on top of you. Hope this helps a little!! Have fun!
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  • I'm on the larger side as well.  Doggy style and standing rear-entry work well for us.

    This article has a lot more ideas..(It's NSFW btw).

    http://www.sexinfo101.com/positions_larger_lovers.shtml

    HTH. 

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  • this might be a little complicated to explain but when i was pregnant with #2 FI and i would do a modified spooning. I would lay on my side or my back and he would be on his side entering me from behind but angled away from my body like a y or a + i put one or both of my legs over his and if we are close enough to the wall i might put my foot against the wall to help me brace so i can move my hips freely

    sorry if this was a confusing description, we still do this sometimes because he says it is one of the only positions where he cant feel my IUD string

  • All good ideas! Thank you all so much. This was a really awkward question to ask and I really appreciate the help! I'm sure he will appreciate it too! 

    Thanks again! 

  • I agree with him kneeling and your legs around his shoulders- I am also heavy, and we just started using this one and it is great!
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  • One of my favorites is the old "edge of the bed" position. You lie on your back with your bottom at the edge of the bed while he stands.
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