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Another wedding, another dress decision

So as my ticker says, we're off to Hawaii this June for SIL's wedding. It's "Beach Formal" and I have nothing in the closet that matched.  So we went shopping yesterday- JCP had a great sale and I could drag DH out to get help with his good eye.  I came home with 2 dresses from JCP and 1 from Forever 21.  I'm going to keep the F21 one since it's cheap, fun, and good for dinner for 2, but don't know if it's too trendy/ inappropriate for the wedding.  I would only keep one from JCP because I just don't need 3 new dresses.

So help ladies- which dress do you think would be most appropriate for an afternoon into evening Hawaii wedding on the beach?

Dress 1 (Forever 21):
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Dress #2: (DH's fave)
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Dress #3: With & Without jacket (most utilitarian as it could go to Easter or work)
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Re: Another wedding, another dress decision

  • OK, I don't like dress #2, something about the tiered skirts just turn me off... its a nice dress and all, but it doesn't do anything for me...

    I like dress #1, but I think you are right I am not sure it is wedding appropriate 

    And I LOVE dress #3, but I think I would ask SIL to clarify the "formal" part of beach formal... because this doesn't seem formal to me...  but I would keep it because you can use it for work, Easter, a different wedding or dinner out with YH

    maybe check with SIL to see if she thinks #1 or #3 is what she thinking of when she puts that on the invite... 

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  • I love #1! Number 2 is cute..i like the print, but not the skirt; number 3 doesn't say beach to me. Pair #1 with a black cardigan and I think you have a winner.
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  • Number one is awesome!

    I also really like number three and love when dresses can do double duty.

    You look fantastic in all three!!

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    I really like 1 and 3.  "Beach Formal" is kind of a weird thing...what does that mean?  I guess 'beach wear' would be super casual, so this is like dressy beach wear - in that case I think you could make either work for that.  I guess I they're asking that you not show up in a bathing suit and a cover-up.
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  • "Beach formal" is a funny thing...

    I love all three dresses on you, but I kind of like the way 1 and 2 look the best...normally 2 would not be something I'd be into, but I think the above-the-knee length is really flattering on you!  1 may be too casual and I guess you could potentially be uncomfortable in a long dress, depending...3 is cute, but probably not my choice for a wedding.

    Either way, I think keeping 1 is a good idea, since I find long dresses a great thing to have all summer long for everyday and dressing up a bit.

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  • Love, love, AND LOVE!!!  You look amazing in all three!
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    Love, love, AND LOVE!!!  You look amazing in all three!

    Fishy, I'm not sure you are helping!!!  hahahaha....hugs

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  • Love number 1and think is appropriate for a beach wedding. I wore a dress like that down in Jamaica for a formal dinner. Problem was my legs were hot! Love number 2, fun and flirty. Love number 3 on you, but for Easter and/or work, not Hawaii.
  • I think beach formal means don't show up in a bikini Big Smile  I agree with whoever said to send the pictures to your SIL and see what she says.  All look great to me.  I like the first one with a black shrug as someone suggested to dress it up a bit.
  • They all look great on you!  Number 1 is the most beachy to me.  As others have said a black shrug would help dress it up.  Add some earrings and a bracelet and I think you'd have "beach formal".  I really like number 3 for Easter and work!
  • I'd go with #1. But I was in the same quandary as you with a tropical wedding and, although I'm comfortable with my choice, we'll see how much I feel like an outsider in less than a week!
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  • To me, beach formal means "don't show up in cut-offs and a bikini top." 

    I think dress #1 with a black wrap would be perfect for the wedding. 

    Dress #2 looks like Hawaii but I'm meh on it.

    I love dress #3 for Easter/work.  So cute! 

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  • I'd say you're bringing sexy back with choice 1. 
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  • I really dislike #3. 

    I really LOVE #1 and I agree that adding a black pashmina and some nice jewelry and you will be good to go!

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  • i love one and two :)
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  • That's ladies! I really appreciate all the honest opinions!

    So I think #1 is nice, but I'll be too afraid of slipping to expose the "peaches." #2 is DH's fave because it makes my boobs look good and he thinks the ruffles are fun.  I think the ruffles remind me of a MOB dress and it's a little short for ocean breezes.  #3 is pretty for everyday whatever events, but it maks my boobs flat and it's a little long. And I don't really do whatever events, so I'm not sure what I'd do with it beyond the wedding.

    We were in a rush at the mall as because I asked DH to lend his good fashion eye, that also meant bringing the small one.  Between him being a ticking time bomb before nap time and me hating shopping, we were moving pretty fast.  I tried on this dress but wasn't ready to commit in that moment.  I think I'll go back and check it out again this week- it has a lot of what is good about these other dresses and it was one a top contender. 
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  • That dress just may be it! I really like it, sure you'll look great in it. Don't be too worried about the peaches though, somehow mine were able to keep a strapless like that up and I was very worried.
  • First off, I'm SO jealous of your figure - gorgeous!!!  I love, love, love dress #1 on you, and #3 is adorable too.  I say both are completely appropriate.
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  • #1 or that other dress.... and if you are worried about exposing, there are some bras you could get that would go under that-- or just have fun and make sure you are tucked in! You look great!  
  • I love the "alternate" dress- I'm in full support of going and checking it out again! I also liked #1 as well, and agree with the black pashmina/cardigan to dress it up a bit. Good luck, I'm sure you'll look fabulous!
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  • OOOH! I love that dress you just posted- the back is awesome!  You must go to visit that dress and try it on :)
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  • yes, that last dress just may be it...the back is fabulous!
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    Pair #1 with a black cardigan and I think you have a winner.

     This!

    (They all look fabulous!)

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  • I like the idea of dress #3, but I agree with your H that dress #2 flatters your figure way more.  Dress #1 is AWESOME.  I may go to Forever 21 and check it out myself.  (You could always use fashion tape to keep it in place if you need to.)  I also like the possible alternate, though.  The back is killer!
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  • Jumping in late here, but I just wanted to say that I am super jealous of your figure and all the dresses you posted pics of you in look amazing on you. 1 and 2 are my favorites, but I definitely like the alternate you posted as well.
  • They all look great!  I love number one and your alternate choice.  I think your alternate choice might actually be my favorite.  My least favorite is number two--I'm not much of a fan of the ruffles, and I think the ocean breeze might catch you.  You should keep number three for Easter! :) 

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