Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Thoughts and Prayers
Can I have some thoughts, prayers and good vibes for my little sister? My mom just told me she hasn't been going to classes lately and dropped out of college.
A few months ago she got a DUI and now has to take a class, complete community service, the whole bit. The judge came down really hard on her. She has been feeling stressed and anxious about completing those requirements on top of school and feeling guilty that my parents have been paying for her apartment and pretty much everything else for her so she doesn't have to work. They have told her it's ok that she doesn't have a job right now but everything on her plate has made her completely shut down. It was finally just too much for her to handle. She may need to move back home because my parents won't let her just bum around in her apartment doing nothing while they pay for it, but she really doesn't want to go back. She's going through a really rough time right now and I'm worried about her. I hope she does her community service like she's supposed to, then at least finds a part time job and a room mate so she can stay where she is....moving home really won't be the best thing for her and I'm hoping she doesn't get herself into a situation where she has no other choice.
Re: Thoughts and Prayers
Thoughts going her way. I'm sure she will be able to pull it together. I have had people close to me who have been in similar situations and people can gets things together when they are ready too for themselves. Be supportive and give lots of love!
Datsyuks & Ferdy- We Go Together Like...