FFF anyone?

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• mlveynar

  April 2011

  I have the worst AF-related mood swings this week.  I swear, on Wednesday, it was like I was bipolar.  I scared my crew, which takes a lot.  And I find myself annoyed just by being around people, even really close friends! 

  I am not looking forward to Easter.  We are spending the morning with the ILs, and the evening with my parents.  My mom, who is normally the rational one, tried to tell us to spend the whole day with his parents when I told her we were splitting the day, even though she had already invited us for dinner.  Seriously mom, WTF?  On top of that, the last time I saw FIL, he made a comment about my weight, so I am especially not looking forward to seeing him.  I wish I was working and didn't have to deal with this.

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• iheartcutepuppies

  April 2011

  I'm jealous MH started losing weight (he originally gained about 10 lbs early in my pg). I am upwards of 30 lbs weight gain with working out (and not just walking- cardio + strength training) 4 days a week (provided I'm also indulging in treats) and I feel like a cow.I have fat face. I feel ugly. I want to give H some loving, and our track record for the pregnancy has been decent... but I'm not for a few reasons- 1. I am so bull at him for being so forgetful and doing things half ass. I am so fvcking sick of picking up after him and doing everything around the house. And really, he couldn't remember to put the frozen chicken and frozen blueberries back in the freezer after he made himself dinner last night (I had an early dinner and went to bed early)...so this morning I woke  up to blueberry mush in a bag and raw contaminated chicken on the counter. I thought I was going to get sick.2. I am sick of his hairy face. He usually kept a nice clean chin strap...and when he asked if I minded if he grew it out to be like a beard a little, I said no, but please keep it clean/trimmed. It is a disaster now. It's like kissing a brillo pad and I'm grossed out by it and the mustache it comes with. I get there are things going on in our lives (ahem, baby) and his mind is elsewhere, and I have been patient...but I am done. What else...Oh, my patience at work is really bad...like to the point i  am concerned I am going to get spoken to...so to nip it, I am going to talk to my boss and explain my concerns (I'm seriously not like myself at work, I hate it).And I can't tell if MH is actually excited for this baby (insert hormonal outburst_______) he doesn't talk and it pisses me off.

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• iheartcutepuppies

  April 2011

  mlveynar:

  I have the worst AF-related mood swings this week.  I swear, on Wednesday, it was like I was bipolar.  I scared my crew, which takes a lot.  And I find myself annoyed just by being around people, even really close friends! 

  I am not looking forward to Easter.  We are spending the morning with the ILs, and the evening with my parents.  My mom, who is normally the rational one, tried to tell us to spend the whole day with his parents when I told her we were splitting the day, even though she had already invited us for dinner.  Seriously mom, WTF?  On top of that, the last time I saw FIL, he made a comment about my weight, so I am especially not looking forward to seeing him.  I wish I was working and didn't have to deal with this.

  1. I HATE feeling like that. Yuck yuck yuck. It's like a need to be quarantined feeling.

  2. Give this to your FIL: Glitter punch. love, jackie xoxo 

   

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• nchambers1123

  April 2011

  I almost wish we *not just MH and me* didn't have smart phones. Call me old school, but they are a huge distraction from what's right in front of you, like just spending quality time with those that are around you. A conversation just isn't the same when the person is constantly looking at their phone rather than you.

   
  

  

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• burkems

  April 2011

  nchambers1123:

  I almost wish we *not just MH and me* didn't have smart phones. Call me old school, but they are a huge distraction from what's right in front of you, like just spending quality time with those that are around you. A conversation just isn't the same when the person is constantly looking at their phone rather than you.

   
  

  I am so on board with this. I am not jumping on the bandwagon until "they" make me and I am certain one day "they" will make me. I'm sure I would get a lot of use out a smart phone, but I don't need it by any means, so I'd rather not have one.
  

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• mlveynar

  April 2011

  burkems:

  nchambers1123:

  I almost wish we *not just MH and me* didn't have smart phones. Call me old school, but they are a huge distraction from what's right in front of you, like just spending quality time with those that are around you. A conversation just isn't the same when the person is constantly looking at their phone rather than you.

  
   

  I am so on board with this. I am not jumping on the bandwagon until "they" make me and I am certain one day "they" will make me. I'm sure I would get a lot of use out a smart phone, but I don't need it by any means, so I'd rather not have one.
  

  Add me to the bandwagon.  DH is constantly "plugged in", so I feel like I never have his full attention.  His phones (yes, he has more than one smart phone) are the first thing he checks when he wakes up, and the last thing before he goes to sleep.  And yes, I'm jealous of the phone.

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