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My heart is broken and feelings hurt....

So, like I said today was our testing today.  I had a group of 6th graders and the other SPED teacher had a group of 4.  On our testing schedule it said to take them to lunch at 12.  So, we did.  I sent my group on with the other teacher because I had to escort one to the bathroom (they aren't allowed to go alone on test days....cheating etc).

So, I get to the cafeteria and one of the 4th grade teachers is all worked up because we cut in front of her class.  I apologized profusely and said we didn't know.  We just followed the schedule.  She then said, "Well, I just feel like since my kids will actually pass the test, they deserve their full lunch time."

I informed her in front of 9 other teachers that my kids work hard.  My kids all pass the test too and they also deserve their full lunch.  Then I walked off and ate in my room......

It just makes me sad because I forget sometimes that other teachers still think my kids are stupid and it really hurts my heart because they aren't.  I have kids that take the regular test just like everyone else and get commended on them.  The only difference is, they can't read but we can read it to them.  So. tell me....how are they stupid then?

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Re: My heart is broken and feelings hurt....

  • That makes me sad too.  Your kids are very lucky that they have you. 
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  • people suck - a lot these days.

    sorry, Ash.

     

    next time just punch her in the face. 

  • I am so shocked that she said that. I can see a person who isn't in education (and ignorant) making a comment like that, but not another educator. How dare she say that. I hope more of your kids pass than hers, then she can take that and shove it.
  • I can't believe that teacher would say that!  All of the kids at your school deserve their full lunch-not just ones that will pass the test!  Ugh-how ignorant is that teacher!
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    I am so shocked that she said that. I can see a person who isn't in education (and ignorant) making a comment like that, but not another educator. How dare she say that. I hope more of your kids pass than hers, then she can take that and shove it.

    All of this. My mouth is hanging wide open. 

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    imagealigator423uf:
    I am so shocked that she said that. I can see a person who isn't in education (and ignorant) making a comment like that, but not another educator. How dare she say that. I hope more of your kids pass than hers, then she can take that and shove it.

    All of this. My mouth is hanging wide open. 

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  • This really makes me angry it's just so wrong, I can't believe she actually said that. 
  • What they all said. So unbelievable and so sad. Glitter lunches to her and Ash, you're an amazing teacher. Those kids are lucky to have you!
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    This really makes me angry it's just so wrong, I can't believe she actually said that. 

    I'm with Vikki, not so much sad as angry.  Like skull-cracking angry.  God forbid that poor excuse for a teacher ever has a kid who's special ed.

  • This makes me awfully sad, also.

    I can't believe another teacher would say that.  

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  • You have the patience of a saint. I would've pulled her aside and gone off on her - I was seeing red when I read her comment. People are so freaking ignorant, it's ridiculous.

    I'm so sorry Ash. It seems like you work so hard with them, and they don't get the respect they deserve. That's not fair.

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  • E is furious and wants that teacher reported and fired.
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    E is furious and wants that teacher reported and fired.

    I totally agree!  I really think you should report her to....whoever it is you report unacceptable behaviour to.  Her comment was wrong on so many levels.

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    imageLarissaAnn:
    E is furious and wants that teacher reported and fired.

    I totally agree!  I really think you should report her to....whoever it is you report unacceptable behaviour to.  Her comment was wrong on so many levels.



    I can't believe how ignorant some people can be. I'm so sorry Ash!!
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  • I would report her but the person I would go to is a principal.  Our principal is great in most aspects...except confrontation.  She won't do anything about it.

    Also, getting a teacher fired after 3 years basically takes them committing murder or a SERIOUS offense.  We have tenure after 3 years.  She's been here over 20 possibly 30.

    I can take all the comments they say about me.  I don't care but when it comes to my kids I want to tear them apart.  My kids work hard and just because they need some extra support doesn't mean they are stupid.

    She may as well have knifed my heart.  It would hurt less.

    I'm applying for a diagnostician job at a high school campus (they have way less drama).  Beth, the other sped teacher and friend is applying at another district hear her home (she drives 1.5 hours one way).  We've both had enough and maybe they'll learn when we're gone.....

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    Sono showed no baby and teeny tiny sac. Waiting to M/C naturally.

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