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F/U on the girls

The bad news:

They are growing and their bio-physical profile (breathing and movement) is perfect,  but B's blood flow study is still abnormal.  I saw a different Dr. in the practice today and he used the words placental disease.  I asked if B's part of the placenta was detereorating rapidly or at a "normal" rate and he said it was normal.  They di not know from the two studies that have been done if I will still be delivering early, or how early. 

I asked if the disease was an acute thing and he said generally no, this is where something doesn't form right from the very beginning, but that it doesn't get noticed until the last trimester as that is when the need for nutrients increases, thus making it more visible. 

I know I have done everything I am supposed to do, but I still feel depressed and I feel like I am letting them down somehow.  Also, that since I have no symptoms of pre-e that it is likely that I could have this in a subsquent pregnancy.   

He said that I should be able to make it to 32 weeks - which I feel mostly ok about. 

The "good news": Baby B had her feet on Baby A's face, so that was cute and that made me smile a little.

Re: F/U on the girls

  • You are not letting them down in any way - you're being the best mom you can to them - and don't you forget that!!!  Sounds like Baby B is going to be quite a handful (or a footful Wink)
    Me: 35 DH: 37 TTC since 4/2010
    DX: 6/9/2011: Azoo ICSI/IVF only option for biological child
    IVF #1: ER - 9/26 * ET - 10/1 * beta#1 10/13 - 140 * beta#2 10/17 - 477 * beta#3 10/20 - 1101
    1st u/s at 6w6d - one hb * 2nd u/s at 8w3d - no hb detected 11/10/11 * natural m/c 11/13/11
    FET #1 Jan/Feb 2012 - 3 delays - cancelled 2/13
    FET #1.2 - May/June 2012 - ET 6/6/* beta#1 6/15 - 95 * beta #2 6/19 - 322 * beta #3 6/22 - 940
    7/6 1st u/s @ 7 weeks - one beautiful hb - released from RE
    EDD 2/22/2013
    PAIF/SAIF/PGAL welcome
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  • You have done great so don't beat yourself up at all!!!  Twin pregnancies come with their risks and that's just the way it is.  The docs seem to have a good handle on your situation.  It's also good that they are preparing you for the likliehood of an early delivery.  I think that will help you a lot if you do face some NICU time, I know it helped me tremendously.  It was still hard but I knew it was coming so I had time to prepare to not take them home with me when I went home and all of the other emotional roller coasters of the NICU.  

    My guys were 32 weekers and they are doing fantastic now.  I have a lot of other twin friends that were earlier than that and all are doing great!  

    Hang in there and remember you are a great mama already!!! 

  • I was just wondering about you when I was coming home from the grocery store this afternoon.  Thanks for updating us!  

    Well, the good news is they think you will make it to 32 weeks, which will buy you a little more time to grow the babies on the inside.  I will be praying for you and your girls that everything will work out and this will just be a little bump in the road.

    Take the next few weeks easy and let us know if anything changes! 

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    12/09 - Macy (daughter) | 4/10 - Began TTC Baby #2 | 12/10 - Chemical Pregnancy | 1/12 - Miscarriage at 14 weeks | DX - PCOS & Hyperthyroidism
  • You KNOW you are doing everything right. Keep on keeping those girls safe and fed, and you will have done your job. Did you make more appts???
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  • You are doing a great job!  KUP - I'm sending T&Ps your way.
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  • I cannot imagine what you are going through, but you seem to be handling things amazingly well! Your girls are lucky to have such a strong mama!!
  • While that is not the best news, you still have two healthy baby girls.  Baby B is not in distress, which is great.  You are not letting them down, you are doing everything possible to protect them and keep them safe.  Every milestone is an accomplishment.  IF you make it to 32wks who knows what they will say!  Keep your head up!
  • ::vibes for healthy, happy babies and momma::
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  • My sister delivered her twins at exactly 32 weeks when her water broke. She was scheduled to start getting the shots to boost the babies lungs the following week. The smaller twin did have some breathing issues but overcame it quickly and they were both out of the NICU within 2 weeks. The twins are now 7 months old and are right on track developmentally with no health issues.

    I will continue to send you healthy babies vibes. Good luck and please keep us updated.

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