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does sex hurt the baby??

alot of my friends told me when you have hard sex it can make the baby have a defect,me i am kind of scared so i try like every other 2 nights

Re: does sex hurt the baby??

  • Not true at all.

    Are you woefully  misinformed, or is this MUD of some kind?

    Certain positions can be real uncomfortable during later stages of your pregnancy. speak to your doc about sex during pregnancy; if he gives you the all clear, do as you wish. I wouldn't go for rough sex, though.

  • imageTarponMonoxide:

    Not true at all.

    Are you woefully  misinformed, or is this MUD of some kind?

    Certain positions can be real uncomfortable during later stages of your pregnancy. speak to your doc about sex during pregnancy; if he gives you the all clear, do as you wish. I wouldn't go for rough sex, though.

    Ditto all of this.  I would also like the add that anal usually isn't a good idea bc of infection and such, as well as certain lubes.

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  • Never use a message board in lieu of physician advice.

    On another thread that you began you are asking for advice about a sharp pain in yoru side. For love of all holy, get your doc's opinion on all things medical and all things pregnancy.

  • It can put a really large hole in the baby's head, you better not do it!

    {There should be an intelligence test required before conceiving}

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  • This better be MUD, because if it is not, you are CLEARLY not ready to be having a child!
  • imageprettygurl31406:
    alot of my friends told me when you have hard sex it can make the baby have a defect,me i am kind of scared so i try like every other 2 nights

    Yes. It kills it. Never have sex again.

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  • I had to ask my doctor the same question because my man thought he would hurt the baby. My doctor said that sex during pregnancy is perfectly fine unless you aare high risk. The baby is wrapped in the amniotic sac and the cervix is closed so that nothing can touch the baby. Babies are wrapped type and sit high up until when you are almost due. Your baby will be fine. Stop trippin' and get your freak on. But check with your doctor anyway just to be sure.
  • imagetwardrick:
    I had to ask my doctor the same question because my man thought he would hurt the baby. My doctor said that sex during pregnancy is perfectly fine unless you aare high risk. The baby is wrapped in the amniotic sac and the cervix is closed so that nothing can touch the baby. Babies are wrapped type and sit high up until when you are almost due. Your baby will be fine. Stop trippin' and get your freak on. But check with your doctor anyway just to be sure.

    The fact that you had to ask makes me sad for your child.

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  • just be sure to use a condom because you dont want to have twins or get the fetus pg too!!!
  • I don't care how big a man's ego is...it will always be bigger than his penis. No matter what he says...he is NOT big enough or heard enough to tear through the muscles of your cervix and make it to the baby.
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  • imageDerniermot:
    just be sure to use a condom because you dont want to have twins or get the fetus pg too!!!

    Irish twins!!!

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  • No, sex cannot hurt the baby. 

    I would say more, but it would all be rude.

    Please go open an anatomy book and read about the parts that are inside of you.  

  • Haha...prettygurl made her way over here. Figured the troll would show up somewhere.

    Come back to Sept 2011 moms prettygurl, we love deciphering your posts and then laughing.

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  • This is MUD. We've already had tons of fun with her on September 2011 BMB. 

     

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  • imageDerniermot:
    just be sure to use a condom because you dont want to have twins or get the fetus pg too!!!

    Good point!  

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    imagetwardrick:
    I had to ask my doctor the same question because my man thought he would hurt the baby. My doctor said that sex during pregnancy is perfectly fine unless you aare high risk. The baby is wrapped in the amniotic sac and the cervix is closed so that nothing can touch the baby. Babies are wrapped type and sit high up until when you are almost due. Your baby will be fine. Stop trippin' and get your freak on. But check with your doctor anyway just to be sure.

    The fact that you had to ask makes me sad for your child.

     

    thats pretty harsh ... not everyone has open communication with their parents and peers about sex and pregnancy, to you and sex being safe during pregnancy is common knowledge but to a nervous new mom to be who is the first among her peers to become pregnant it could be a legitimate question...their is a reason that it is mentioned in most texts about pregnancy

     

    and to prettygirl as i'm sure you have gathered it is perfectly safe to have sex during pregnancy unless your doctor tells you not to or you start bleeding or having vaginal pain, you should ask your doctor if their is any reason she wouldnt want you having sex during your pregnancy but in general it is safe to have sex during pregnancy 

     

    by the way ladies ... i was NOT allowed to have sex during part of my second pregnancy because i was bleeding and at risk for a miscarriage their are in fact reasons why someone would not have sex during pregnancy they just dont apply to everyone

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