September 2009 Weddings
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A poll of a sexual nature
Pollie Pollie Polllll[Poll]
Re: A poll of a sexual nature
See, this is where I'm coming from. If I'm just not into it, but he is, and I want to try to get there? I'll think into my past, wilder times. It works.
This happens more often now that we kind of have to squeeze it in wherever we can because of the munchkin. Finding time to do it is hard!
Yep; it certainly is especially with different work schedules. I also don't want to disappoint K if I don't seem into it. It's not because I'm not attracted in love with him it's just that I'm tired LMAO
Exactly!
I haven't done that, but I don't think there's anything wrong with those who do.
However, how would you guys feel if you knew your H's were thinking of other women while in bed with you? Would it bother you? Are you cool with it? Just curious.
I know he does, we've discussed it. It doesn't bother me. It's human nature. As long as he's not sticking it to another girl on the side, I don't care.
I almost spit out my coke I was laughing so much when I read this. You are awesome Ames! I agree with you!
Haha thanks!
To start with a confession: Jay is the only person I've ever had sex with so my "remembering" is always of him anyways. Judge away if you will...
I voted sometimes and am with Nooner; not during sex but when the need arises to ring my own doorbell I do or fanatsize about what we could do the next time we actually have a chance to have sex!
I have no problem if he fantasizes about other women I just don't want to know about. I know that it has nothing to do with the way he feels about me but due to my own body issues I prefer not to know if he's doing it/who he's thinking about.
I don't judge you for only sleeping with one person. Do you judge me for sleeping with WAY more than one?
This. It just doesn't come to mind when I'm having sex with my husband but I do fantasize on occasion on my own time. I know I have had fleeting thoughts here and there of past experiences if he does something similar to something I had previously had done, but I don't dwell on them in the moment. I also say, to each their own and if you and your hubby are good with it more power to ya!
I agree with the bolded part word for word. I have always had body/self-esteem issues so I do not want to know. As long as he's not acting on any of the fantasies, I really don't care. Just don't tell me about them.
Dx: Hashimoto's Hypothyroidism After 2 years TTC & failed IUs,we have our IVF baby born 9/24/11
LO#2 aka 'Miracle Baby' Orig. EDD= 9/28 EDD moved to 10/3/13
"Most of the important things in the world have been accomplished by people who have kept on trying when there seemed to be no hope at all." -- Dale Carnegie
"Our greatest weakness lies in giving up. The most certain way to succeed is always to try just one more time." --Thomas A. Edison
Agreed. I dont need to know. I do know he watches porn though. Meh, whatever. As long as we're satisfied then I dont care who he beats off to. I will say we have way more sex now that I'm knocked up than we did before TTC. Its quite awesome.
Confession: the web cam comes in handy when he's out of town for work. Just sayin'.
Not at all, I lurves you Ames! I always tease Jay about being man whore before we got together (which he totally was) but in the end he's disease free, child free and probably way better in bed than most guys were at 18!
yep, I think as long as you take precautions to protect yourself and to not reproduce before you're ready, it's all good. I am disease free and I was child free until Guy, and I'm glad I had the experiences that I did. I wouldn't take back my time as a single, sexy girl!