October 2010 Weddings
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Mother's Day gifts

Are you all getting anything for your Mom's or doing something special with them on Sunday?

My Mom hasn't exactly been my favorite person lately, but she'd freak out if I didn't spend Sunday with her, so myself along with my siblings are going to get suckered into doing something awful...her latest idea was having all of us help weed/plant her garden and then take her out to dinner...yeah.....fun.....  Anyway, I couldn't think of anything to get her and didn't really want to put much thought into it because like I said, I'm not all that fond of her right now, so I just ordered her some flowers to be delivered tomorrow as an early Mother's Day present.  They look like this but with a clear vase because I had a coupon for that...

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Hopefully she likes them and doesn't question me as to why I would buy her flowers that will die and go on and on about what a waste of money it is.  She's really a lovely woman Hmm

Anyone else not in the Mother's Day spirit?  Or are you totally excited to spend time with your Mom or are you planning a special gift?

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Re: Mother's Day gifts

  • I am not in the Mother's Day spirit for my MIL....DH and I had another talk last night about how I am a second class citizen in his family.  He says he doesn't know what to do to change that.  My mom doesn't want anything.  Honestly, unless one of my sisters steps up and plans a dinner I will probably just chill at home and relax that day (DH has to work).
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  • For my momma, we sent flowers to her office, almost identical to yours Xan (it was a radio ad so we got them cheap!) so she'll be so excited to feel so special!  Also, she typically cooks for all of us on Sundays, so this Sunday I'm cooking at my house so she can relax and enjoy the meal without any work.

    MIL, we also sent her flowers to her home office to suprise her.  We got her the same bouquet so no one's feelings get hurt lol  We're also taking her to dinner and the Phillies game on Saturday since she loves it.

    I'm excitied for a family-filled weekend.

  • I'm kind of a mothers day hater....My mom passed away few years back now, so it's always been a hard "holiday" seeing all the cards, and stuff with 'MOM" on it.  So we always spend mothers day with mikes mom, this year i think were going to either A) cook dinner here at the house for her or B) take her out for dinner. as far as gifts go, we got her a card...I was working on a scrapbook from the wedding for her but that new job i've got has kept me from getting it done... which is very irritating so I'm not sure if will get her anything else...I was thinking maybe getting some little things like pretty smelling lotions and stuff and making a basket.
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  • Xan921Xan921 member
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    imagekearstin1218:

    For my momma, we sent flowers to her office, almost identical to yours Xan (it was a radio ad so we got them cheap!) so she'll be so excited to feel so special! 

    Mine was a radio ad too that I heard this morning coming into work lol.  Proflowers.com, right?  Too bad the shipping costs as much as the actual flowers did lol.

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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
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  • Xan921Xan921 member
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    Jason and I go our separate ways for Mother's Day.  I spend it with my Mom and he spends it with his grandmom and Mom.  Lucky for him, they are pretty low key and don't expect any gifts, so he just had me pick out cards for them (sweet, huh? lol).  I offered to send them flowers too but he said no, that they know money is tight and would actually be upset with us if we did that.  If only it were that simple with my Mom...
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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
    Nestie Besties with Nfp147 
  • imageXan921:
    imagekearstin1218:

    For my momma, we sent flowers to her office, almost identical to yours Xan (it was a radio ad so we got them cheap!) so she'll be so excited to feel so special! 

    Mine was a radio ad too that I heard this morning coming into work lol.  Proflowers.com, right?  Too bad the shipping costs as much as the actual flowers did lol.

    Yes!  Exactly!  I was so proud to get them at such a sweet price, then checking out I was like holy sh!t are they packaged in frikkin gold and hand delivered by Gerard Butler or some sh!t?!?  Jerks always find away to take our money lol

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    imagekearstin1218:
    imageXan921:
    imagekearstin1218:

    For my momma, we sent flowers to her office, almost identical to yours Xan (it was a radio ad so we got them cheap!) so she'll be so excited to feel so special! 

    Mine was a radio ad too that I heard this morning coming into work lol.  Proflowers.com, right?  Too bad the shipping costs as much as the actual flowers did lol.

    Yes!  Exactly!  I was so proud to get them at such a sweet price, then checking out I was like holy sh!t are they packaged in frikkin gold and hand delivered by Gerard Butler or some sh!t?!?  Jerks always find away to take our money lol

    If the Gerard Butler thing is true, please send some to me.  I'll pay for the shipping Stick out tongue

    My mom lives half way across the country, so I send a card and call her.  We just saw Chris' parents last week, and they live 2 hours away, so again, we sent a card and I will have to remind him to call.

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  • My mom is coming to our church on Sunday.  The men at our church always do something nice for all the moms (food, corsages, etc.)  Then we will probably take her out to eat.  She is the hardest person to shop for because she has everything!  But we are giving her a copy of our wedding DVD that just came in.  I think she forgot about it, so I know it is something she will appreciate!

    MIL lives out of state, so we sent her a copy of the wedding DVD, a popcorn popper, and kernals with a card that say we are treating her to Movie Night on us.  I don't think she's expecting that at all.  Hopefully she will like it!

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  • We have nothing planned as of yet.  We always just go up to my parents' house (which we often do on Sundays anyway), and my dad and/or Chris will grill something and we hang out most of the day. 

    As for gifts, my mom is like yours, Brooke.  Impossible to buy for!  She also doesn't love receiving flowers (unless it's a small arrangement that doesn't cost much), so that's out.  I'm really not sure what to get for her. 

    I will definitely bring cupcakes from a bakery somewhere around here (there are several cupcakeries in the area) because she (and we!) love cupcakes a little too much.

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  • Xan921Xan921 member
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    My mom is coming to our church on Sunday.  The men at our church always do something nice for all the moms (food, corsages, etc.)  Then we will probably take her out to eat.  She is the hardest person to shop for because she has everything!  But we are giving her a copy of our wedding DVD that just came in.  I think she forgot about it, so I know it is something she will appreciate!

    MIL lives out of state, so we sent her a copy of the wedding DVD, a popcorn popper, and kernals with a card that say we are treating her to Movie Night on us.  I don't think she's expecting that at all.  Hopefully she will like it!

    What a cute idea!  I am sure she is going to loooooooove it!

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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
    Nestie Besties with Nfp147 
  • We're picking up both our mothers (they live 10 mins away or less) and taking them to brunch at a local lavender farm. DH's mom picked it out months ago, so what the heck. I got cards for both of them, as DH would never remember to get one for his mom, and as he explained to me, "You have two mothers now." 
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    We're picking up both our mothers (they live 10 mins away or less) and taking them to brunch at a local lavender farm. DH's mom picked it out months ago, so what the heck. I got cards for both of them, as DH would never remember to get one for his mom, and as he explained to me, "You have two mothers now." 

    lol Such a typical guys way to get out of something.  I told Jason I was going to get one for my Mom and said he should probably get one for his grandmom and his Mom too, and he said, "true, so while youre getting your Mom's, can you just pick up two more." lol   

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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
    Nestie Besties with Nfp147 
  • My poor mom has to work all weekend so I am going to send her flowers at work and I am having one of Logans first birthday pics framed for her. Then next week we are going to take her out to dinner.

    Other than that I have no idea what Mike is doing for me, but it better be better than last year which was NOTHING! I don't need much just to be acknowledged.

     

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    Other than that I have no idea what Mike is doing for me, but it better be better than last year which was NOTHING! I don't need much just to be acknowledged.

    Oh no!  My best friend said the same thing happened to her last year (she was like two weeks into being a mom, so you'd think it would've crossed her husband's mind - haha!).  Men just don't think sometimes!

    I hope he does something really great this year, as I'm sure he knows he messed up last year :)

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    imagekjhharris:
    We're picking up both our mothers (they live 10 mins away or less) and taking them to brunch at a local lavender farm. DH's mom picked it out months ago, so what the heck. I got cards for both of them, as DH would never remember to get one for his mom, and as he explained to me, "You have two mothers now." 

    lol Such a typical guys way to get out of something.  I told Jason I was going to get one for my Mom and said he should probably get one for his grandmom and his Mom too, and he said, "true, so while youre getting your Mom's, can you just pick up two more." lol   

    YUP!  He asked that I order one for MIL, and for his Aunt (matriarch) since neither of us have grandmothers, shes pretty much the closest thing we have.  Men.  He asked me last week if "we'd" ordered them yet and when I said no, he had the nerve to say "we" should definitely do it tomorrow.. I just went ahead and gave him "the look" and kept watching tv lol

  • Xan921Xan921 member
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    imagekearstin1218:
    imageXan921:

    imagekjhharris:
    We're picking up both our mothers (they live 10 mins away or less) and taking them to brunch at a local lavender farm. DH's mom picked it out months ago, so what the heck. I got cards for both of them, as DH would never remember to get one for his mom, and as he explained to me, "You have two mothers now." 

    lol Such a typical guys way to get out of something.  I told Jason I was going to get one for my Mom and said he should probably get one for his grandmom and his Mom too, and he said, "true, so while youre getting your Mom's, can you just pick up two more." lol   

    YUP!  He asked that I order one for MIL, and for his Aunt (matriarch) since neither of us have grandmothers, shes pretty much the closest thing we have.  Men.  He asked me last week if "we'd" ordered them yet and when I said no, he had the nerve to say "we" should definitely do it tomorrow.. I just went ahead and gave him "the look" and kept watching tv lol

    HAHA!  The "we" thing is the worst.  For Easter I made each of our families a little basket filled with homemade chocolate chip cookies; when he handed it to his grandmom and one to his Mom, he said "WE made this for you."  Ummm pretty sure I was the one in the kitchen for hours making 6 dozen cookies, the one who spent an hour wrapping all the baskets and the one writing in the cards...thanks for all your help bud lol.  His family pretty much knows what 'we' means though considering both his Mom and Grandmom called my phone to thank ME for the cookies lol. 

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    TTC since March 2012 w/irregular and anovulatory cycles.  
    Moved to an RE October 2013  HSG- All clear , S/A- Normal , Bloodwork -Normal
    Uterine polyp found-  Hysteroscopy and D&C 12/6/13  DX w/complex endometrial hyperplasia
    Endometrial Biopsy 3/21/14 - Hyperplasia still present  Endometrial Biopsy #2 6/24/14 - All clear!
    IUI #1  w/stims and trigger - Started stims 7/7/14 - IUI 7/24/14 = BFP 8/7/14
    Beta #1 8/8 - 47  Beta#2 -137  Beta#3 - 96 Beta#4 -287 Beta#5 -519 Beta#6 121 = early miscarriage 5w4d
    Nestie Besties with Nfp147 
  • We are getting cards and putting the ultrasound pics into them to  announce our pregnancy.  Our parents don't know yet!  We are also taking them to dinner.  I think the card will be sufficent though!  LOL!  They are going to flip!  I almost don't want to tell them because they are going to be screaming excited.  I have to prep myself for it!
  • our plan is to have his parents and grandma up for dinner Saturday (with his brother and sister in law) and my parents on Sunday...however I didn't even feel up to making tacos tonight...We also got grandma a painting at the thrift store and our mom's each a cherry tree
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