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Kinda embarrassing question
So I have been with my husband for about 7yrs. We always have great sex and he can always get me off. The thing is that I dont think he has every hit my g-spot, I always have to get off by clitoral stimulation. We have definitely tried all kinds of positions but even some thats deep penetration hurts me because its like it goes too deep or something(like doggie style). I really want to find something that works! Does anyone have any suggestions?
Re: Kinda embarrassing question
Sounds like before you two have sex again that you actually may have to find your g-spot yourself.
The G-spot is a soft, spongy area that is about 1/2" in the vagina in the front wall. (or back wall- the clit side and not the anus side) Take your finger and slide in and make a "come hither" motion with that finger. If that does not feel well, begin to search that wall until it feels nice.
There are positions that can hit this area. Reverse cowgirl is one of them. Want to really feel some wild O's? There are vibes on the market that only help to stimulate the G-spot. Search them out if you want and good luck!
I would recommend doing some reading about the G spot (short for Gr?fenberg,the guy who did a lot of research about female orgasm, and discovered it). There is are a lot of conflicting ideas out there as to what and where exactly it is, and there is a hypothesis that is an extension of the clitoris.
Anyway, my conclusions is that you shouldn't feel bad you haven't found the spot on you, since doctors can't even agree if it exists or not. Do some research, and keep trying, but don't get frustrated or think you are having bad sex if you don't find it.
I agree with the ladies above, first you want to make sure you can find the g-spot yourself. Getting a specific G-Spot vibrator is perfect because it's going to be the perfect angle, since you specifically want to find that I would also make sure that it does not have a clitoral vibrator attached because if both are going you're probably bound to have a clitoral orgasm before a g-spot orgasm.
Once you've found it on I would recommend getting a prop that will help you get the perfect angle, because yes it can be difficult! One that my customer's have found helpful is the Love Wedge (through Pure Romance.)
Hope this helps!