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Hypochondriac

Do you know one?  How do you deal with them without p*ssing them off?  How do you hold your tongue or stop from rolling your eyes when they have another episode that requires the media to be alerted?
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Re: Hypochondriac

  • i'm not good at dealing with it so i don't think you would like my advice. haha
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  • imagejesss10:
    i'm not good at dealing with it so i don't think you would like my advice. haha

    This!  I know a couple, one of them is a really good friend.

  • It's driving me up the wall that each week this person has a new issue that requires all of us to be alerted.  If you do anything other than inquire how they're doing you are a mean hearted person who just doesn't understand.
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  • I really think my mother is one although it has gotten better recently.  You may recall me asking for advice because she watches P for me two to three times a week and was flaking out on me all the time.  I finally asked my dad if there was something wrong with my mom and if she needed to see a therapist.  He must have said something to her and we really haven't had an issue.
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  • I take it you mean that sarcastically sort of?? I knew someone diagnosed as one, and honestly even then I was super annoyed but was a kid and didn't react at all.
  • Yes, mostly sarcastic.  I just had another text from said person about "OMG I'M DYING!"  It's so hard to just ignore it after awhile, I want to say what I really think but that would rock the boat and I just don't want to get into that mess. 
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  • imageTarah716:
    Yes, mostly sarcastic.  I just had another text from said person about "OMG I'M DYING!"  It's so hard to just ignore it after awhile, I want to say what I really think but that would rock the boat and I just don't want to get into that mess. 

    Well I hope they aren't really dying because that made me laugh.

    There was a time when my aunt (who was the diagnosed person) was rushed to the hospital once a year. I know plenty of people that are mostly normal but still totally remind me of her with their health issues/concerns that the tell everyone about.

  • I've had luck by not acknowledging their complaints or talk of doctors appointments. Act like you couldn't be more underwhelmed. Hypocondriacs crave attention so when no one cares that they think they have cancer of the big toe they tend to bark up the tree that will listen. I have a friend who is always going to the doctor for something or another and everything is a worse case scenario- that gets real old.I physically do not have the energy to always listen to the long conversation so I have to wrap it up.

    Also, I've said such things as "You should've been born in a bubble because you are always sick". "Do you think your negative attitude is impacting your health". Or of course you can't come to (xyz)- you are always sick."

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