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I think I had a miscarriage (possible TMI)

Warning:  this may be kinda gross.

I wasn't even sure I was pregnant.  I started feeling PMS signs about 2.5 weeks ago - really bloated, feeling fat, always thirsty.  That would've been about the right time for PMS to start.  Then last week, I started bleeding, but it was brown.  I wasn't alarmed, because that has happened before when I start my period.  This lasted for 5-6 days.  Then today, I started bleeding in earnest.  A few hours ago, I passed a rather large slimy mass - larger than the usual stuff that comes out during menstration.  That's what freaked me out.

I hadn't experienced any pregnancy symptoms other than the bloatedness.  I only would've been maybe 4 weeks along.  I don't feel any different.  If I see my OB/GYN, will he be able to verify if it was, indeed, a miscarriage?

Re: I think I had a miscarriage (possible TMI)

  • oh my gosh...i'm so sorry if that's the case!

    i will say, my periods have been very different since I had Bennett. I often pass large clots during my period now and i'm not sure why. it's on my list of questions for the OB when I see him next. some are quite large and definitely "slimy masses".

    did you have cramping (more than the usual)? i've never miscarried so im' not sure what else to ask. :(

    i hope you're ok!

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  • Wow!! If it was a m/s, do you need medical attention because of passing that clot/slimy mass?
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  • I can't offer any advice, but I hope you are ok. 
  • imageshmoozer:
    Wow!! If it was a m/s, do you need medical attention because of passing that clot/slimy mass?

    I talked to the nurse at my ob/gyn office.  She said I most likely had a m/c.  I'm supposed to take a pregnancy test.  Hubs is bringing one home tonight for me.  I need to call the office back tomorrow with the result.

    I'm feeling fine, which is what seems so odd.  I had some slight cramps about an hour before passing the mass, but other than that, I just feel really bloated. 

  • imagekokomama:

    imageshmoozer:
    Wow!! If it was a m/s, do you need medical attention because of passing that clot/slimy mass?

    I talked to the nurse at my ob/gyn office.  She said I most likely had a m/c.  I'm supposed to take a pregnancy test.  Hubs is bringing one home tonight for me.  I need to call the office back tomorrow with the result.

    I'm feeling fine, which is what seems so odd.  I had some slight cramps about an hour before passing the mass, but other than that, I just feel really bloated. 

    Wow.. Def keep us posted..
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  • ::hugs:: I don't have any advice but I am glad to hear you will see the doc tomorrow.
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  • It could be a m/c. If you've been bleeding this long a PG test may not be any help though. I know by day 2 of my m/c I was testing negative. It also could be a really heavy period. I also felt completely normal, just like I was having a normal period, other than being completely devistated and depressed over the m/c that is, probably because it was so early on. 

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  • ((HUGS)) I'm so sorry.
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  • my guess would be yes but what do i know. i'm sorry!

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  • I was going to say that yes, your office can probably take your blood to see if you have the hormones or whatever still in your blood. A pregnancy test should do the same thing, but not as accurately.

    Either way, big hugs for you! Hope you continue to feel okay! 

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  • No advice, but I'm sorry!
  • I don't have any advice but I'm very sorry! :(
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  • The doc office might want to run some BETAs to make sure one way or the other. I would take a PG test tonight. I really hope you are just having a tough period instead of a m/c. I am so sorry if you are having a m/c. I cannot imagine how hard that must be.
  • No advice but I'm sorry! Hope its just a really gross period. Before birth control my periods were really heavy and I would get those too. This was before I started having sex too.
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