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How long should you stay at a job you hate...

...so that it doesn't look like you are jumping around from job to job?  I graduated college two years ago.  Worked at a place for 9 months, but then moved to Boston for DH to go to grad school.  I've been at the place I am now for almost one year (10 months).  I want to leave, but I don't want it to look like I keep jumping around from job to job, when I would still be at my last job if I didn't have to move.  Any advice?  Hope this makes sense.

 Thanks!

Re: How long should you stay at a job you hate...

  • You also do not want it to appear that you get the nine month itch to leave your job.

    But your first change was because you moved, so I would not really count that. I think that if you are seeing a significant change in your job titles, advancing in job duties, etc that there is no issue with it.

  • you are so close to a year - I'd stick around until you hit that.
  • I am in the same position! I want to leave so bad, but it will not be one year until July....DH was offered a teaching job which he accepted in another town, so we will be moving before July and I hate the way it looks, but I am not happy at my current job and really want to start my own business and just find something part-time until it takes off.......Either way I guess we are moving before I have been here a year and I do not want to look like a job jumper. But I guess it is for a good reason. Its hard to leave places when you haven't been there that long....I am going to give my two weeks in a couple of days and am worried how the office will react.......But I agree with the other posters, the first time you moved for a good reason. If you are unhappy with your job, leave and on the next job search just take time to think about the job you decide to take and talk to DH and see what the chances of moving again are, then you can know what to expect when you take the next job.
  • imageMsHark:
    you are so close to a year - I'd stick around until you hit that.

    This. I am not liking my job at all. I have been here since January. I'm hoping that something else will open up as I really like the company. I'm giving it a good year and then will start looking.

  • Thanks for all the tips.  I can hang on for another two months :)  I would be looking for another job in a completely different field, as well.  Another kicker is that DH is done with classes in a year, and then he goes into a full time internship where they can technically send him anywhere in the US for another year (where I would follow him).  So I'd hate the idea of getting another job, then moving in a year after that one, too.  But, I think I hate the idea of being here for another year more.  So frustrating!  I really want to get my master's degree eventually but I can't decide in what.  This would be the perfect time to do it if I could only make up my mind. :)
  • Agree with the 1 year thing! I have had three professional positions and have stayed at each of them for 1 year (almost exactly!). Since I am in graduate school (about to finish), I've always had a good "excuse" by saying I wanted to try something more related to my field. The last interview I went on, they said they do not fault me for switching departments frequently. They said it was the only way to get ahead!
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  • I think it depends on where you are in your career.  I hired someone who's 25 and he's had 2 positions already.  I was concerned but I thought that he was young enough to do that.  He's been on my team now for over a year.

    I've been working for 11 years and I had about 4 positions (not counting a year off from grad school and 11 months out of work because of layoffer).  I was at job 1 for 2.5 years, job 2 for 11 months, job 3 for 2.5 years and my current job for 1.5 years.  I freelanced for a few months and went to grad school for 1 year.   I personally think I'm jumping from job to job at this point.  However, I have a ton of great experience so people will hire me.  The downside is I'm kinda stuck with where I'm at; I have a team that reports to me but I'm not in a top management position because of my job change.

     

    I think if you're 5 years out of undergrad, I'd be ok with hiring someone with 2 to 3 jobs.  However, my advice is to find a great company and stay for about 5 years.  Rise up in the ranks and then leave.  You'll get a ton of exposure and experience and you'll make yourself more marketable.

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