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Angry Sex?

The other night my DH and I were rushing home excitedly because we had planned on having sex but then on our way home we got into an argument and then things went downhill from there.  After we got home i was still pretty horny and tried to ignore the argument we had earlier and started making the first moves to having sex but failed because his attitude got me angry again.  I went into the bedroom and locked the door and started to prepare for bed when suddenly i got a text from him saying "Can we just have sex and call it a night?"  Normally i would say NOOOOO but I've been told recently never turn down sex just because your angry, so i tried angry sex for the first time and i really enjoyed it.  The sex was HOTTT.  But i still do not know if i agree with never turning down sex because I'm angry. If i do give it to him when I'm angry  then would my DH not feel that there is no need for him to make up with me because he already got what he wanted?  What do my fellow nesties think about having sex while angry?
Anniversary GLH

Re: Angry Sex?

  • I think that if your husband only cared about your feelings in so far as whether or not he gets sex, then you'd have bigger problems than whether or not angry sex works for you.
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  • Duh...he texted you and asked for sex???

    Boy...what problems. Why cant he ask you face to face and be a man and an adult???

    This whole thing is whack.

  • imageReturnOfKuus:
    I think that if your husband only cared about your feelings in so far as whether or not he gets sex, then you'd have bigger problems than whether or not angry sex works for you.

    this is exactly what I was thinking. Sex or no sex I would hope that my H would want to make up with me because, I don't know, he loves me and cares about my feelings. 

  • To be clear, I'm not suggesting that this guy DOES only care about that - I'm saying that if he were that kind of jerk, you'd have noticed by now in a lot of other ways.
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  • imageTarponMonoxide:

    Duh...he texted you and asked for sex???

    Boy...what problems. Why cant he ask you face to face and be a man and an adult???

    This whole thing is whack.

    I practically kicked him out of the bedroom when i locked the door and from past experiences he knows that i never answer him at the door once i lock him out

    Anniversary GLH
  • imageReturnOfKuus:
    To be clear, I'm not suggesting that this guy DOES only care about that - I'm saying that if he were that kind of jerk, you'd have noticed by now in a lot of other ways.

    Thanks for the clarification...i understand and i agree that if he was a jerk i would have noticed...I was actually kind of suprised once i saw the text so i guess i decided to suprise him back by responding in favor to his request 

    Anniversary GLH
  • You kicked him back out of the bedroom when you were done, right?

    If DH and I were fighting, no way would we be having sex before we'd talked it out. If I'm that horny, I'll take care of myself.

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  • @ Mrs. Radd....but of course i did i picked up his clothes from the floor handed it back to him and opened the door for him to leave and he left.  I guess i was too horny to take care of myself but i will think of it next time
    Anniversary GLH
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