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Is it too late for FFFC?

I don't mean to sound like a bad mother, but I'm having major cabin fever and I cannot wait to go back to work. I am first to admit that I'm not cut out to be a SAHM/SAHW. I know it's only been 10 days since I had DD2, but she's still in that sleepy newborn state and most interaction we do is nurse, nurse and nurse. Also, DD1 is at a stage where all she does is squeal/scream. I love her to death but some days, you just want 15 mins of quiet time for your sanity. MH works from home; during business hours, he adapts this curt, business-like attitude. I get really annoyed when he treats me like a client. He's already explained and apologized a few times for doing so, but he can't wear dfferent hats (his words). I have already threatened him that if he keeps on being short with me, I'm going back to work after 4 weeks of maternity leave.

Sorry if this is turning out to be a vent. I just miss enjoying my cup of coffee at work without getting interrupted.

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Re: Is it too late for FFFC?

  • Do you want to go to brunch tomorrow?  I won't have DD, but you can bring DD2 and let your H have "quality time" with DD1.  ;)
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  • I feel like something is wrong w/ me bc I have no desire to have kids.

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  • imageStingShark425:

    I feel like something is wrong w/ me bc I have no desire to have kids.

    I feel like you are possibly the most sane person in the world right now.  ;) 

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  • I hate that my friend is with her complete D-Bag of a husband just for the kids!  It's drives me nuts that she is so completely miserable she doesn't eat and looks horrible all the time.  She thinks her kids don't notice but I've told her that I'm fairly certain they do.  She and DH sleep in separate rooms, don't speak to each other and when DH isn't out at the bar he's laying on their couch.  It's not my place to tell her to leave him so I won't tell her to.  But I feel like I should say something about how I'm fairly positive her kids know something is not right (they're 7, 5, 4 and 2).
  • I'm looking forward to my business trip next week - not because I like traveling, but I feel like I need a a break from the day-to-day monotony of life.
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    1st u/s at 6w6d - one hb * 2nd u/s at 8w3d - no hb detected 11/10/11 * natural m/c 11/13/11
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  • My social life sucks right now.  I lost about 90% of my social life when we moved out to BFE and then I had DD.  Now that I have some free nights, it's really hard to get back into the swing of making friends and going out.  It bums me out when I'm bored, but also gives me something to look forward to in the very near future.

    Also, I have to spend time with my father and his new wife this weekend.  The last time we were together, she used the n-word so many times I vowed we would never stay with them again.  They are staying with my sister this weekend, but I will spend the better part of Saturday over there.  ::sigh::  I foresee a confrontation over language and appropriate conversation around the grandkids.

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  • imagenicoleg1982:

    My social life sucks right now.  I lost about 90% of my social life when we moved out to BFE and then I had DD.  Now that I have some free nights, it's really hard to get back into the swing of making friends and going out.  It bums me out when I'm bored, but also gives me something to look forward to in the very near future.

    Also, I have to spend time with my father and his new wife this weekend.  The last time we were together, she used the n-word so many times I vowed we would never stay with them again.  They are staying with my sister this weekend, but I will spend the better part of Saturday over there.  ::sigh::  I foresee a confrontation over language and appropriate conversation around the grandkids.

    lol. wow.

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  • imagenicoleg1982:
    Do you want to go to brunch tomorrow?  I won't have DD, but you can bring DD2 and let your H have "quality time" with DD1.  ;)

    Brunch sounds good. Do you wanna PM me on here or FB and we'll work out the details?

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  • FB works.  And I check that on the weekends, in case something comes up and you can't make it.
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  • I'm enjoying the new Selena Gomez song way too much.
  • imageStingShark425:

    I feel like something is wrong w/ me bc I have no desire to have kids.

    There is nothing wrong with that at all!

  • imageKimandRoss:
    I'm enjoying the new Selena Gomez song way too much.
    I'm reading these from my phone & have to scroll side to side in order to read who wrote each response. I thought for sure this confession was from Kathy before scrolling over to see it was from you! LOL!
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  • imagejen812:
    imageKimandRoss:
    I'm enjoying the new Selena Gomez song way too much.
    I'm reading these from my phone & have to scroll side to side in order to read who wrote each response. I thought for sure this confession was from Kathy before scrolling over to see it was from you! LOL!

    HAHAHA, I expected it from Kathy tooWink She is our resident cheese...

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  • imagealzigator:

    imagejen812:
    imageKimandRoss:
    I'm enjoying the new Selena Gomez song way too much.
    I'm reading these from my phone & have to scroll side to side in order to read who wrote each response. I thought for sure this confession was from Kathy before scrolling over to see it was from you! LOL!

    HAHAHA, I expected it from Kathy tooWink She is our resident cheese...

    Looks like Kathy might have some competition for the title of top cheese. Sorry, this is FF. I'll stop.
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  • imagejen812:
    imagealzigator:

    imagejen812:
    imageKimandRoss:
    I'm enjoying the new Selena Gomez song way too much.
    I'm reading these from my phone & have to scroll side to side in order to read who wrote each response. I thought for sure this confession was from Kathy before scrolling over to see it was from you! LOL!

    HAHAHA, I expected it from Kathy tooWink She is our resident cheese...

    Looks like Kathy might have some competition for the title of top cheese. Sorry, this is FF. I'll stop.

    It's not like we are flaming anyone's life choices....I think they can handle it....

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