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In Need of Fire

My dad was in the hospital the month of our wedding with a stroke. We sized down our wedding (wayyy down). A week later he passed away. I've not been able to have any sort of sex drive, at all.  Before I was as horny as they come. It's been almost 4 months.

Suggestions? 

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Re: In Need of Fire

  • Grief counseling
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    Grief counseling

    Ditto.

    And I am so sorry for your loss. 

  • I am so sorry. I agree that counseling will help you but I've personally found that the more sex I have the more I want it and if it's been a while my drive goes way down. Maybe try some romance even if you're not particularly in the mood for it to see if that increases your drive at all. Be patient with yourself.
  • I agree with PP about grief counseling.

    As far as getting back your drive... maybe you can try something intimate without the Big Bang as the finish line. {Something simple like candles & being fed with a blindfold? It's something sweet & relatively innocent.} It might sound stupid, but you never know unless you try. *hth*

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  • Doesn't sound stupid at all, I think the more innocence (to start with) the better.

    Thanks to all for the suggestions. 

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