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awkward tmi swingswing
ok super odd question. have any of you...swang? or added another to your group? did it make you feel uncomfertable with you DH or DW afterwards?
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Re: awkward tmi swingswing
to elaborate my friend told me how her and her bf do it all the time.
i dont expect many answers lol. i was just wondering.
I did with my ex. We added another guy for a little while. Mutual good friend. It turned out well. I also did it once with my current. Drunken fun night with my best friend. It worked out good too. It's not even weird. Though we had fun, we don't plan on doing it (at least with her) again. Not for any real reason.
We have a lot of trust. It's not something we talk about or plan. This one just happened. Fun experience. Who knows if something like that will happen in the future. (Might I add they are not each other's type...so I know there will be no residual "issues" that I have to worry about).
Good rule of thumb....if you are thinking it may be awkward after, you probably shouldn't try it. Because you are already having doubts. You don;t want resentments stemming from what should've been something fun and adventurous.
I haven't but know friends that did. It worked for them. I think that I would feel more comfortable if we were with another couple, but I couldn't just bring in another guy or girl. I don't think my hubby would go for either.
There is no way I could do it with DH, but I always wondered about it and wish I had tried it before meeting him. But, there is no way I could handle another man touching me, or watching another woman touch him.
My best friend and her DH do regularly, they find people on line, and while she says it never bothers her, if we go out and she sees him checking out another woman, I can read the irritation in her face. I think if you have even that much jealousy, it could lead to big problems.
I don't know if I technically "swang" (as that to me means swapping with another couple), but in my last relationship, my boyfriend and I invited a third (my best friend, female) into our bedroom. It was really fun and revitalized our slumping sex life.
No horrible dramatic ending--the relationship ended for other reasons entirely and new BF isn't so much attracted to the girl in question, so we don't play with her. We are very much open to inviting thirds into our relationship if a suitable candidate comes along. We play it by ear. Whatever develops naturally. He's flirted with some girls online and we've fantasized about it together (with the "What would you do if another girl was here?" talk whilst having sex). Just hasn't happened yet.
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