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Had DD's ECI Eval Today

I don't think it could have gone better. In Texas, a two month delay is required for a child to qualify for services. They said Lily is delayed by 1-1/2 months in motor skills, but, they just started a new rule where they round, so, because her birthday is on the 30th and today is the 16th, they will round up to two months. She qualified by one day! Our original appointment was for last week and they had to reschedule - I'm so glad they did!

She was diagnosed with mild hypotonia, and the OT will come to the house for 45 minutes twice a month and give us "homework" to do with Lily. Her first session is at the end of the month, and, in the meantime, DH and I need to decide if we want to focus on crawling or walking. The OT said she is closer to walking and obviously prefers to work on walking (tummy time = she immediately sits up). However, crawling does provide the benefit of helping her learn to use both sides of her brain together, so we aren't 100% sure if we want to skip it.

Anyway, the summary of the appointment was that she is pretty much normal, but on the low end of normal enough to qualify for services. It means I feel a bit vindicated for worrying, but at the same time happy that there isn't really much "wrong" with her, and I'm very happy that we will be getting help because I've been feeling helpless in this area!

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  • that's awesome that your appointment went really well! I am glad you were able to get some answers- that mommy instinct is a powerful tool!

     

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  • I'm so glad to hear that it went well and that Lily edged right in under that cutoff to get an extra boost of help! Go Lily!!  
  • I can imagine how much relief you must feel now that the evaluation is complete and you have a plan in place to help Lily work on her skills, fantastic news! Kudos for you to listening to your mama-instinct, you were clearly right on track. Good luck with you're "homework", I'm sure Lily will be a star!
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  • I totally understand how you feel with "vindication" while happy she's still normal! I'm glad that you guys are going to get a nudge in the right direction with Lillian.
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    That sounds like a good outcome! I'm glad it went smoothly!
  • imagemaeghan21:
    I totally understand how you feel with "vindication" while happy she's still normal! I'm glad that you guys are going to get a nudge in the right direction with Lillian.

    This! 

  • MA&CBMA&CB member
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    It sounds like you were right on with your instincts - that she wasn't too far behind, but could use a little extra help.  Glad it went so well and that she just qualified!
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  • Glad she will get services. Smile
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  • imageMA&CB:
    It sounds like you were right on with your instincts - that she wasn't too far behind, but could use a little extra help.  Glad it went so well and that she just qualified!

    Exactly what I was going to say! Yay!

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  • That sounds like an all around great eval! I'm sooooo happy to hear she made it by a day in your favor. Been thinking of you Mamma. Great instincts :)
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  • so glad to hear your news, it's really so great that you qualify for the services even though it sounds like in the long run Lily is already on the right track! 
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  • I'm glad the appointment went well and you finally got some answers and that she'll be having someone come in to help! :)
  • Excellent!  Hopefully you will get a good provider who is a tremendous resource.  I'm sure she'll be caught up in no time because you referred so early.  The earlier you go, the faster the progress. 

    FWIW,  the OTs I work with really advocate for crawling...as it strengthens the upper body and helps the brain with that coordination piece.  They were just talking recently about how many of their kiddos with fine motor difficulties didn't crawl.   (I didn't know this until I was at my current job...certainly not my area)

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  • imagedanieleandwayne:

    imageMA&CB:
    It sounds like you were right on with your instincts - that she wasn't too far behind, but could use a little extra help.  Glad it went so well and that she just qualified!

    Exactly what I was going to say! Yay!

    Me too!

  • jd72878jd72878 member
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    Awesome Kristen! Lily is going to be a rock star!
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  • I'm so glad you're getting the support and guidance you were looking for. And what wonderful news that she isn't so far behind :) I'm sure she'll get it in no time!
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  • So glad that you have some answers and qualify for help.  Even better news that she isn't that far behind.  You'll be chasing her around in no time.
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  • Sounds like your mommy instinct was right on! I'm glad Lily was able to qualify for the help she needs. She's lucky to have such a great momma, I'm sure she'll do great :)
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  • Way to go Lily!
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  • Chiming in late as usual, but I just wanted to say I'm so happy it went so well. I know that's really been weighing on your mind lately so it must be a huge relief.
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