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I see we had a dirty delete here. So what else is new?
Cheez Louise, Alana...you sure can't take honest advice or honest criticism, can you?
Sure you need counseling...4 lost pregnancies are difficult emotionally!
Re: I see we had a dirty delete here. So what else is new?
Original poster has a history of jumping from one sh!tty relationship to the other. She recently suffered a pregnancy loss and I believe she said there were 4 prior losses.
She decided it would be a great idea to start dating her guy friend. Turns out he's a lush and undependable. Says she broke it off with him, but who knows?
She now thinks it's a good idea to date her former "hot" ex boss. Not a good idea to date anyone right now -- I advised her to call a moratorium for a good year from dating; I guess that is no dice.
She found an apartment and is moving in with a couple-- probably strangers she cannot vouch for. Why in the world would anybody want to live with a couple and share an apartment with them??? At the very least, find anotehr person you know and trust and get a 2 bedroom apartment with that person.
She got huffy and pizzy when we suggested she needed therapy -- wow, therapy is a good idea because of the grief factor; she's lost a pregnancy! --- and I guess that led to the dd. Oye.
The ladies here are hard assed as it gets but you will get good advice. Some of us can't stand the heat.
Wait, she got mad from people stating that she needs therapy? That means she REALLY needs therapy.
Why would you post that crap on sex and romance anyway? Sounds like a trouble in paradise type of problem?
There's other issues --- she broke up with one boyfriend and jumped right into a sh!tty relationship with the guy friend.
A therapist can help her with the grief counseling factor -- not to mention a full checkup by a doc would help. I'm sure her hormones are all fubared up because of the recent pregnancy -- I think the last thing that's warranted if your hormones are messed up is depo, which is what she got.
Oye. So many problems -- indeed call it quits on dating for a good good long time. The last thing you need is another boyfriend and certainly the other last thing you need is going horizontal with anybody any time soon.
Not certain.
Is that what she said in her post?
It is a difficult, devastating, life leaching decision for someone to have to make. Although it isn't allowed, victims are still dragged through the mud and put through the ringer when they press charges. Whatever she decided to do I think she is a brave woman to do what she can to put her life back together.
Not that I in anyway condone a DD. That is just irritating and low.