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5 texts today! AND the guy who harrasses me at work-updates

So, the guy at my community center who harrasses me is at it again. He saw a customer at the desk from the gym (he plays on one of our teams-I was doing work in the back office bc we were slow). He came into our office from the gym and the following happened:

He RUDELY told me that "There is someone up front." I said, ok be right there, ma'am".-to the lady,not to him.

Then he tells me "you dont have to roll you eyes at me like that!" (Never rolled eyes-he was just trying to embarass me in front of the customer).

I say, "I didn't roll my eyes and YOU need to get our of the office, you don't work here."

 

Then, he mimicks me (I ignore). I held my composure because there was a customer at the desk. I had to.....

 I am documenting everything at work-this guy, plus co-worker drama. I know I need a new job, and am looking!

 

 

 

Re: 5 texts today! AND the guy who harrasses me at work-updates

  • He sounds nuts. Really and truly nuts.
  • I remember your first post. 

    I'm appalled that your supervisor is still allowing this jerk to come back and harass you.  I don't know how many discussions you've had with your boss about this, but I would attempt to have another one and make sure he/she knows how bad the situation is.  If he/she isn't understanding then it might be time to part ways or go above him/her.   

    Also, don't hesitate to call the police if you ever feel uncomfortable.  This guy sounds crazy, and you can never be too careful.           

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  • I remember your first post too. How old is this guy? He is seriously acting like some of my first grade students. I would definitely be looking for a new job and, in the meantime, be taking detailed notes on his behavior and leaving them for your boss weakly, maybe even daily.
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  • My boss is not taking this seriously-she rolls her eyes and gets annoyed with him when I tell her, but does not take it seriously, to the point where she tells me to kick him out or anything.

    The guy is 22. You would think I am talking about a 9 year old.

     Between this guy and coworker drama (one lies ALL THE TIME, one acts like she is the boss, and the boss texts and calls whenI am not working) I am looking for another job.

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