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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.
Thank you.
Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.
Updates
After the whole "empty" comments, H and I were talking about things (over texts bc that's the only way H will open up). Neither of us said "hey let's for sure break up" but he started by asking me what I would do if we did separate. He asked if I could still stay at my dad's house a while and he told me I could keep the car since I will have Aiden and will need something more reliable and I could use the money he gives me for car payments (even though I don't want the car bc of the car payments but that is another story). We even said we would take Aiden to Disney for the day 1 more time and get pictures with all the characters together. I asked my dad last night if we would still be able to stay with him for awhile if needed and he said "Absolutely!!!" So I guess we will see what is next.
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I don't know if I should say congrats or not...but congrats. ..on a decent conversation w/ you H..and that you have somewhere to stay.
I'm very happy for you. (That feels so wrong to say. I never want to be happy that someone is separating..but I think in some situations it's just the best thing to do).
This is progress for you all and I am so happy that you all were able to have a decent conversation about the situation.
Sending lots of T&P your way for continued progress and a healthier situation for you and Aiden
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Ellie ~ 3.29.12
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Oh Liz, what bittersweet news. I am glad to hear that you and your H are keeping things civil and keeping in mind Aiden's best interest. I wish I could give you a hug right now. While this news is probably for the best, I am sure the variety of emotions you are feeling are overwhelming. Keep your head up and don't forget that in the long run everyone will be better off. You, your H and most of all Aiden.
I am wishing you nothing but happiness!
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So obviously the ending of a relationship is incredibly difficult, so I'll just say that I think it's great that you and stbx are having such civil, adult conversations and making these plans. My parents divorced when I was 8, and I later found that they knew for months that they were going to do it, but they waited until after Christmas that year. We all went to my grandparents house and had this big family Christmas, apparently, for the last time. I have so much admiration for them that they did that for us because it must have been so incredibly difficult for them.
And ditto PPs, if there's anything you need, just say it! Good luck and stay strong.
My silly Lily is almost 4.
Ditto. (((hugs)))