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Sad
As I've been posting - my parents decided to move back up to Michigan from Florida. Well my mom arrived back in Michigan on Sunday - she informed me yesterday she wasn't staying and already planning her move back to Florida.
I have mixed emotions:
I'm sad because I want her & my dad here
I understand she wants to be with my dad and he just cannot find a job here that is worth leaving the one he currently has
I'm p!ssed because she is flip flopping on choices like this and because she made a big fuss about how she doesn't want to be an absent grandmother and yet...she's going to be. And she can be so sensitive so I know she's going to be jealous that Dayne is closer to MIL than her but that cannot be helped.
I just needed to vent and get that out there...that's all.
Re: Sad
BOOOO! That totally sucks Tarah and i'm really sorry. They shouldn't have got your hopes up like that.
Is your dad going to keep looking for a job here or are they just giving up? Hopefully he will keep looking and i will keep my fingers crossed for you.
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That's so sad, I'm sorry to hear about it.
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I'm sorry they are changing their minds. That sucks for you and for Dayne!
I'm so sorry! I was so excited for you
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aww. i'm so sorry tarah
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TTC since Sept 2009
Cycle#9-Natural BFP 7/9/2010 ~ m/c 7/31/2010 ~ 8/31/10 beta 0.
Nov/Dec 2011, started seeing RE. HSG-all clear! SA is good! DX = unexplained IF.
Cycle#25-50mg clomid, IUI#1 = BFP 12/24/11 ~ m/c 1/5/12 ~ 2/21/12 beta level finally 0.
Cycle#28- 100mg clomid + Ovidrel + IUI#2 = BFN
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RPL tests reveal MTHFR mutation(1copy)-adding Folgard & BA and moving forward.
Cycle#32-Follistim + Ovidrel + IUI#4 = BFP!
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9/11-seen HB!! 9/18- no HB, 9/21/12-D&C. Fetal tissue testing revealed a healthy boy. Now getting more tests to try to figure out this mystery
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That sucks... maybe she can come visit often!
We had similar jealousy issues. We used to live 1 1/2 hours from both grandparents but we spend most of our time with MIL & FIL- 1. they have room for our family to stay there, 2. they are always having get togethers that we are invited to and go to, 3. they invite themselves up to our house often. My mom finally told me she was hurt by all the time we spend with the ILs. I tried to explain this to her but she still doesn't fully get it and just says "You can come visit us at camp anytime during the summer"... what she doesn't remember is that it's an added hour to the trip and that's a lot for a day or two of visiting. And it's crowded at their camp.
Anyway, I hope that she accepts that you can't control the relationships Dayne has.
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