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Need rec - RE doc...UPDATED

We have got to finish some work on our house...baseboards & crown molding mainly.  Does anyone have a handyman that they would recommend?  We had a contractor quote us and it was insanely high...but DH is traveling for work so much that we can't seem to get this done ourselves.

Also.....has anyone seen a RE (Reproductive Endocrinologist) that they loved? Preferably in Center City.  I'm frustrated and not getting any help/answers from my doctor. This whole wait 12 mths then call us thing is just not working.

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Re: Need rec - RE doc...UPDATED

  • Shoot me an email dmaf14@aol.com my bil is a Lincensed handyman and has pretty reasonable pricing and will come out and do free quotes.
  • ooodsieooodsie member

    I am seeing an awesome RE.  My friend also went to them and they were able to get her pregnant in a few months after years and years of trying with another doc (she saw the female doctor, not the one I am seeing).  They have an office in Langhorne, Willow Grove and another in Center City.  I see Dr Castelbaum, and the practice is:  

    http://rmaphiladelphia.com/ 

     

    Also regarding the wait 12 months thing, all he did was ask me how long we had been having unprotected sex, and made sure I was 12 months out from that date.   basically he said insurance just likes to know you've tried for a year before seeing an RE... so even if you have to flub the numbers by a month or two, they're not strict on it.   

  • imageooodsie:

    I am seeing an awesome RE.  My friend also went to them and they were able to get her pregnant in a few months after years and years of trying with another doc (she saw the female doctor, not the one I am seeing).  They have an office in Langhorne, Willow Grove and another in Center City.  I see Dr Castelbaum, and the practice is:  

    http://rmaphiladelphia.com/ 

     

    Also regarding the wait 12 months thing, all he did was ask me how long we had been having unprotected sex, and made sure I was 12 months out from that date.   basically he said insurance just likes to know you've tried for a year before seeing an RE... so even if you have to flub the numbers by a month or two, they're not strict on it.   

     

    "fyi" i did not have to wait 12 months, and i had pretty basic insurance.  I was temping/charting/irregular cycles and clearly not ovulating.  If you can pretty much show this, there is NO POINT in waiting 12 months obviouslyyyy

     

     

    "You don't seem to post anything normal, just ask a bunch of stupid questions."
  • NieceyKNieceyK member
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    imagelachute:
    Shoot me an email dmaf14@aol.com my bil is a Lincensed handyman and has pretty reasonable pricing and will come out and do free quotes.

    Thanks!!  Just sent you an email.

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  • NieceyKNieceyK member
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    imageooodsie:

    I am seeing an awesome RE.  My friend also went to them and they were able to get her pregnant in a few months after years and years of trying with another doc (she saw the female doctor, not the one I am seeing).  They have an office in Langhorne, Willow Grove and another in Center City.  I see Dr Castelbaum, and the practice is:  

    http://rmaphiladelphia.com/ 

     

    Also regarding the wait 12 months thing, all he did was ask me how long we had been having unprotected sex, and made sure I was 12 months out from that date.   basically he said insurance just likes to know you've tried for a year before seeing an RE... so even if you have to flub the numbers by a month or two, they're not strict on it.   

     

    Someone else recommended this place to me as well.  I'm going to give them a call tomorrow.  Hopefully I can start getting some answers.

    THANKS!

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  • ooodsieooodsie member
    imagediagonals:
    imageooodsie:

    I am seeing an awesome RE.  My friend also went to them and they were able to get her pregnant in a few months after years and years of trying with another doc (she saw the female doctor, not the one I am seeing).  They have an office in Langhorne, Willow Grove and another in Center City.  I see Dr Castelbaum, and the practice is:  

    http://rmaphiladelphia.com/ 

     

    Also regarding the wait 12 months thing, all he did was ask me how long we had been having unprotected sex, and made sure I was 12 months out from that date.   basically he said insurance just likes to know you've tried for a year before seeing an RE... so even if you have to flub the numbers by a month or two, they're not strict on it.   

     

    "fyi" i did not have to wait 12 months, and i had pretty basic insurance.  I was temping/charting/irregular cycles and clearly not ovulating.  If you can pretty much show this, there is NO POINT in waiting 12 months obviouslyyyy

     

     

    I'm not ovulating either.    What treatments did you end up doing to finally start ovulating?  I am new at this... so I'm just curious what's working/worked for you.    

  • NieceyKNieceyK member
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    My problem is that my charts all look normal. I have a temp shift, AF is normal...the only possible thing is that I'm Oing on CD20. But since everything looks 'normal' my regular OB/gyn doesn't want to do anything yet. It's just hard emotionally for me every month.
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  • imageNieceyK:
    My problem is that my charts all look normal. I have a temp shift, AF is normal...the only possible thing is that I'm Oing on CD20. But since everything looks 'normal' my regular OB/gyn doesn't want to do anything yet. It's just hard emotionally for me every month.

     

    wait, then you are O'ing? did you use an ovulation predictor to make sure?   it's 20% chance of getting pregnant each month even when you are "normal"   --  you really don't want to go through all the testing with a RE if you don't have to!

     

     

    "You don't seem to post anything normal, just ask a bunch of stupid questions."
  • ooodsieooodsie member
    imagediagonals:

    imageNieceyK:
    My problem is that my charts all look normal. I have a temp shift, AF is normal...the only possible thing is that I'm Oing on CD20. But since everything looks 'normal' my regular OB/gyn doesn't want to do anything yet. It's just hard emotionally for me every month.

     

    wait, then you are O'ing? did you use an ovulation predictor to make sure?   it's 20% chance of getting pregnant each month even when you are "normal"   --  you really don't want to go through all the testing with a RE if you don't have to!

     

     

     

    I second that..  The two appts I've had so far have not been fun....... and certainly not something I would do if I was not positive there was a problem! 

  • NieceyKNieceyK member
    1000 Comments Fourth Anniversary Name Dropper
    Sorry - wasn't on at all today. Yes I'm getting +OPKs every month. We're on cycle 8 now. I'm Oing kinda late in my cycle and have gotten +opks post temp spike. This past cycle my temp dropped after 6 days instead of the usual 14DPOs.

    I know I could be jumping the gun on the RE thing. I think this month's negative just hit me hard. If they tell me to wait 4 more cycles and come back - I will. I just feel like I've been doing everything right and it's just not happening.
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  • imageNieceyK:
    Sorry - wasn't on at all today. Yes I'm getting +OPKs every month. We're on cycle 8 now. I'm Oing kinda late in my cycle and have gotten +opks post temp spike. This past cycle my temp dropped after 6 days instead of the usual 14DPOs.

    I know I could be jumping the gun on the RE thing. I think this month's negative just hit me hard. If they tell me to wait 4 more cycles and come back - I will. I just feel like I've been doing everything right and it's just not happening.

     

    you are obviously normal.  i take back everything i said, stick with your OB for a few more cycles.  *side eye 

    "You don't seem to post anything normal, just ask a bunch of stupid questions."
  • lachute does your BIL do work in DELCO?
    TTC #1 since 04/2010; Me: 32(30) Stage IV Endo; DH: 41 12/11 Clomid = BFN 1/11 Clomid = BFN 2/11 Clomid = BFN IVF #1 4/11-5/11 ER: ET: Canceled FET #1 8/17/11 Beta #1 8/31/11 = BFN IVF #2 ER:10/22 ET:10/28 = BFN Daisypath Anniversary tickers
  • imagediagonals:

    imageNieceyK:
    Sorry - wasn't on at all today. Yes I'm getting +OPKs every month. We're on cycle 8 now. I'm Oing kinda late in my cycle and have gotten +opks post temp spike. This past cycle my temp dropped after 6 days instead of the usual 14DPOs.

    I know I could be jumping the gun on the RE thing. I think this month's negative just hit me hard. If they tell me to wait 4 more cycles and come back - I will. I just feel like I've been doing everything right and it's just not happening.

     

    you are obviously normal.  i take back everything i said, stick with your OB for a few more cycles.  *side eye 



    Thanks for the recommendations!

    So I went ahead and made an appt with the RE. I have a cyst the size of an apple where my left ovary 'should' be. He could not see any ovarian tissue so I may not have a left ovary. Also have a uterus septum Had an MRI yesterday and I go in tomorrow for the results. Very happy I didn't wait until the 12 mth mark since I need surgery to remove the cyst and fix the septum.
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