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I want to appologize in advance

For any excessive posting I may be doing in the near future with questions or vents. Embarrassed Our friends are getting married the last weekend in June and H doesn't want to tell anyone about our separation until after the wedding. Although I have told one friend, this kinda limits me on who to talk to about all of this. I do however think it is stupid to wait until after the wedding since we said we would both be moved out of the apt by the end of June and that only gives me a few days really to tell people before I move an hour away. Indifferent I do understand where he is coming from by not wanting to tell everyone though.

I love my crazy child!
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Re: I want to appologize in advance

  • We didn't tell too many IRL people until I'd moved out, so I understand where you're coming from.  
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  • I see both sides.  It would kinda suck to have to tell your friends, "oh yeah, by the way I'm moving to __ tomorrow."  Sorry, I have no good advice, but wanted to offer hugs. Sad
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  • No need to apologize. I know what you are going through. Like I said before, if you ever want to talk im here, we could do a playdate with the kids
  • Ditto - no need to apologize.  I know this is going to be a hard time for you, but stay strong.  You and Aiden's life is going to be so much better in the long run.  If you need anything, let me know!  If it is a weekend, and you need a babysitter, I'd volunteer to take Aiden to the park to hang out!

    Where does your dad live? 

  • imageWhatIsLove?:
    No need to apologize. I know what you are going through. Like I said before, if you ever want to talk im here, we could do a playdate with the kids

    Sounds good to me! Are you ever free during the week?


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  • imagemoonstone523:

    Ditto - no need to apologize.  I know this is going to be a hard time for you, but stay strong.  You and Aiden's life is going to be so much better in the long run.  If you need anything, let me know!  If it is a weekend, and you need a babysitter, I'd volunteer to take Aiden to the park to hang out!

    Where does your dad live? 

    He lives down in Bradenton. And I know nothing about the area lol 


    I love my crazy child!
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  • imagenicoleg1982:
    We didn't tell too many IRL people until I'd moved out, so I understand where you're coming from.  

    Not to butt in, but this is news to me.  Where are you living now?  Doing alright? xx

  • imageAidens__mommy:
    imagemoonstone523:

    Ditto - no need to apologize.  I know this is going to be a hard time for you, but stay strong.  You and Aiden's life is going to be so much better in the long run.  If you need anything, let me know!  If it is a weekend, and you need a babysitter, I'd volunteer to take Aiden to the park to hang out!

    Where does your dad live? 

    He lives down in Bradenton. And I know nothing about the area lol 

    Anna Maria Island is nice :)

  • imagemoonstone523:
    imageAidens__mommy:
    imagemoonstone523:

    Ditto - no need to apologize.  I know this is going to be a hard time for you, but stay strong.  You and Aiden's life is going to be so much better in the long run.  If you need anything, let me know!  If it is a weekend, and you need a babysitter, I'd volunteer to take Aiden to the park to hang out!

    Where does your dad live? 

    He lives down in Bradenton. And I know nothing about the area lol 

    Anna Maria Island is nice :)

    My parents live in Parish, which is fairly close to Bradenton - we love going down to the beaches on Anna Maria Island as well as Long Boat Key (I think that's the right name for it). 

    I know it's going to be a crazy time for you and Aiden, but sending lots of T&P's your way as you go through this transition.

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  • Bradenton will be fun - lots of new, exciting things to do.  The only thing I know is the one Chili's off that one exit, and how to get to the house of a guy I used to ... know.  ;)
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  • imagemoonstone523:

    imagenicoleg1982:
    We didn't tell too many IRL people until I'd moved out, so I understand where you're coming from.  

    Not to butt in, but this is news to me.  Where are you living now?  Doing alright? xx

     

    YGFBMail. 

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  • imageAegis2005:
    imagemoonstone523:
    imageAidens__mommy:
    imagemoonstone523:

    Ditto - no need to apologize.  I know this is going to be a hard time for you, but stay strong.  You and Aiden's life is going to be so much better in the long run.  If you need anything, let me know!  If it is a weekend, and you need a babysitter, I'd volunteer to take Aiden to the park to hang out!

    Where does your dad live? 

    He lives down in Bradenton. And I know nothing about the area lol 

    Anna Maria Island is nice :)

    My parents live in Parish, which is fairly close to Bradenton - we love going down to the beaches on Anna Maria Island as well as Long Boat Key (I think that's the right name for it). 

    I know it's going to be a crazy time for you and Aiden, but sending lots of T&P's your way as you go through this transition.

    We live in the northern part of Palmetto, right next to Parrish. AMI is beautiful and there is an awesome ice cream place onthe beach there too! Liz- If you need help moving boxes and such let me know, I can fit a lot of junk in my trunk. Wink

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  • Liz I am in Sarasota..not too far from Bradenton and I have off all summer.  Maybe we can do some playdates is A and P. 
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  • Post away!  I can't offer any advice but I do have a listening ear and I love to chat!!  I know this is hard but the very little I know of the situation I think it's a good thing.  Lots of T&Ps for you and Aiden!
  • I don't have any advice, but I will be sending you T&Ps! Also, I go down to Sarasota about once a month or so to see Tasha and Beckett, so we'll have to get together this summer (you too Aja!).
  • I'd definitely love to meet up for a playdate in Bradenton. Also since I am not that far from Bradenton at all, I'd also be happy to help if you ever need a hand watching Aiden or anything else.
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  • Can't sleep and catching up on posts. Im sorry I'm late on this and just now realized that your separation is final, I knew you guys were having problems but didnt know you made the decisions. A friend of mine lives in Palmetto/Parrish area near Brandenton, I love going to Ellenton Prime Outlets and its not too far from Siesta Keys which is one of my favorite beaches.

    As far a your H not wanting to tell people right away, just IMO I  think its because he knows people will ask what happened and he knew that he's in the wrong and too embarrassed for people to know and answer any of the question that will arise.

    I love kids and Aiden seem to be my kind of kids hhehehhe a little smarty pants. If you need someone to watch him I wouldnt mind babysitting : )

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