March 2009 Weddings
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Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.
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Divorce - Just curious
Think any of our March 09 Knotties are divorced already?
I remember the one girl (Thank God) called off her wedding.
Re: Divorce - Just curious
I've actually wondered this myself. I remember the girl that called off her wedding. I think she lived in Georgia and her fiance in Florida or something like that. It seemed like he was using her for her money and she finally realized that.
I don't know of anyone that is divorced though from our group.
PCOS and Endo
Ovarian drilling and endo removed 1/3/12
BFP - 3/27/12
Beta's 11, 14, 57, 637, 2800
Sono showed no baby and teeny tiny sac. Waiting to M/C naturally.
I don't remember the girl who called off her wedding, but I only came to the month board a few times....I always forgot about it
But, I've wondered that a few times myself.
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Yes! And they had the graffiti engagement photo shoot in sorta b&w with hot pink graffiti.
Oh, I think I missed the pictures! Dang, I'd like to see those. I can't say I've ever seen graffiti pictures....at least since the 90's.
PCOS and Endo
Ovarian drilling and endo removed 1/3/12
BFP - 3/27/12
Beta's 11, 14, 57, 637, 2800
Sono showed no baby and teeny tiny sac. Waiting to M/C naturally.
After getting my degree with a concentration in Marriage & Family Relations, I'm like the grim reaper of negative relationship thoughts. It's really something I need to work on. For the longest time people would tell me about their new SO's and I'd mentally calculate their failure odds.
This may make me sound crazy, but I'm going to share anyway.
So you know how they say that 1 out of ever 2 couples ends in divorce (I know, super obvious, but stay with me)? I wonder on a regular basis what other couple pair DH and I are a part of.
Am I the 1 and my friend A is the 2 (meaning I would be the divorced one)? Or is my friend K (who just got divorced) the 1 and I'm the 2? Or am I the 1 and someone I've never met is the 2?
Yes, crazy.
I'm laughing because I'm just as crazy as you are!! When I first got pregnant I thought, "Well Greg, you may divorce me, but you're officially stuck with me for life"
When my brother married his now ex-wife we all knew it would never last. And...when she got pregnant we were all sad because we knew we'd be stuck with this woman forever.
you're not crazy. I've never thought about it like that.
I've thought about it too, and we don't have any divorced friends so let's hope we're not the ones. I know several couples who have almost been divroced, but never actually finished it up.
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I'm extra crazy, because I was thinking about it this way:
If DH and I are paired with K and her now-ex, then we are the 2.
If DH and I are paired with other friends C and K, we are totally the 1, because they have the strongest marriage I've ever seen.
If DH and I are paired with A and D, it's a toss up
If DH and I are paired with A and D (woah, just realized I have two sets of couple friends with the same initials!), it's a toss up with them too.
I think about this with one particular friend from college who, IMO, rushed into getting married. She's always been super competitive with me, so it's made me be secretively competitive with her. DH and I dated for 4 yrs before we got married, she and her DH only one. They had a super short engagement and had to get married 2 months before us. So when she tells me about their conflicts (like he was addicted to porn and not having sex with her last year, and just recently they're having major communication issues) I am outwardly supportive to her, but secretly I'm just counting down the clock.
DH doesn't believe in divorce, so if it were to ever happen then I'd be the one to do it. As far as I know, I'm not going anywhere yet. So hopefully we're the couple that stays together (not sure if that's 1 or 2
).
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