New marriage, new sex moves??

RTEbersole · May 2011

My DH and I have been married for 2 months now but we have been together for over 3 years now. All of a sudden my DH has been pulling new sexual moves that he has never done before. I don't think he is cheating since he has never had a big sex drive and I have a healthy sex drive to take care of him but it still makes me curious and worried about where this has come from. Has anyone ever experienced this? Should I talk to him about it or just enjoy it?

JHart264 · May 2011

Talk to him about it if you are feeling insecure, but I wouldn't start by saying, hey I think you might be cheating, who taught you that... I would try more like, wow, that was great, what made you think to try that? It's possible he is just excited about being a newly wed, and wanted to ante up in the bed room rather than tanking out after tying the knot.

MattNCarol · May 2011

JHart264:
Talk to him about it if you are feeling insecure, but I wouldn't start by saying, hey I think you might be cheating, who taught you that... I would try more like, wow, that was great, what made you think to try that? It's possible he is just excited about being a newly wed, and wanted to ante up in the bed room rather than tanking out after tying the knot.

This.

pastrypuff9000 · June 2011

What are the new "moves"?

kjewell · June 2011

My guess would be that he is trying new moves to make sex more exciting. Doing the same thing for 3 years can get boring for some. Also, does he wtach porn? I know some men see/learn moves that they want to try from movies.

RTEbersole · June 2011

No he doesn't watch porn that is where I am confused on where this came from. It's not big sex moves or anything but I can tell when that it is new

Derniermot · June 2011

If it feels good I would just stfu and enjoy it and/or compliment him.

If I didnt enjoy what he was doing I would ask where the heck he was pulling the new moves from.

ChelseaNelson · June 2011

Ha, funny you should ask! Happened last night. I did say "where did you learn that from" but I was trying to not make it sound like "who did you learn that from" and likely tried to hard and/or was awkward about it. He said he didn?t know what I was talking about and I tried to explain it, he said he didn?t know. I tried to move on to a new subject and said it was fun and we should redo it again soon?.he was still sort of weirded out by my question. I wont be bringing that up again right after...it ruins a good moment.

mudphudstudent · June 2011

Holy paranoid, Batman. Just go with it.

littleitalianwife · June 2011

I'm surprised my husband hasn't ask me that, we're married and it adds this whole new level of primal possession when I see that ring on his finger. It could be like that for your guy. That feeling of "Finally", no more twinges of premarital guilt, and wondering why you're spouse is still wearing pants?

ESquared423 · June 2011

littleitalianwife:
I'm surprised my husband hasn't ask me that, we're married and it adds this whole new level of primal possession when I see that ring on his finger. It could be like that for your guy. That feeling of "Finally", no more twinges of premarital guilt, and wondering why you're spouse is still wearing pants?

Haha! I was wondering if I was the only one who got even more turned on during sex when I see the ring on his finger..it makes me think..that's MY man! Not that he wasn't "mine" before but YKWIM!

elisagoulart · June 2011

Totally agree with you both on this! And I think he feels the same, sometimes he looks at me and says "How'd I get so lucky? You're my WIFE!" and that is the BEST Big Smile

Izzy Shae · June 2011

Porn? Talk with the guys? The HBO TV shows?

If you ask him about it just throw it in a good light, like "wow, that was GOOD/Great, where did that come from?"

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