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Dear Community,

Our tech team has launched updates to The Nest today. As a result of these updates, members of the Nest Community will need to change their password in order to continue participating in the community. In addition, The Nest community member's avatars will be replaced with generic default avatars. If you wish to revert to your original avatar, you will need to re-upload it via The Nest.

If you have questions about this, please email help@theknot.com.

Thank you.

Note: This only affects The Nest's community members and will not affect members on The Bump or The Knot.

**MomsAE**

I hope that if you have real friends (whether on the board or IRL) that you'll reach out to them. You shouldn't be struggling with this alone. *hugs*

Re: **MomsAE**

  • Agreed (and, I agreed with Stripes---you get one shot at this life. One. Is this really the one you want?)
  • I am extremely disappointed the post was deleted.

    I have strong suspicion that IRL the AE is being pressured by her family to stay with her husband.

    AE - I really hope my post did not sound rude because that was NOT my intent at all. I spent many, many years in a relationship with a man that I did not trust.  That is a horrible way to live life.  I thank God everyday I did not marry him.  YOU DESERVE TO BE HAPPY.  You deserve to be with a man that worships you.  You deserve to be worshiped. You deserve to be respected.

    Please seriously consider my response.  We are here for you if you need anything. It takes a lot of courage to realize how valuable you are and that you deserve to be treated better.

    Please do not be like me and waste valuable years of your youth on someone that does not deserve you!

    XOXOXO

  • Whoever posted that--I would be more than happy to lend an ear if you need it. No judgment, I promise. At this point without knowing more information, I would seek some individual counseling. You need to tell a trusted friend in case you need somewhere to stay the night or help you out in any way. It's time to gather the strength that you'll need and fin some relief. You do not deserve to be hurt and upset all by yourself. Hugs. I am here if you need me--PM me if you need/want to. (or facebook or a phone call if I know you).
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  • Like Stripes said--you deserve to be happy. I hope you'll confide in a friend (whether here or IRL) so that you can be getting the support you deserve. No one should go through something like this on their own.
  • Peace and courage to you, MomsAE. ((hugs))
  • I agree with stripes here and with what she posted in the deleted thread.  I had started to comment and say so right as the thread was deleted.  I am so sorry that you are going through all this, and I hope that you find someone to talk to about all of it.  You deserve to be with someone who respects you (and your child deserves to grow up in a family that can teach him/her about how to have a healthy relationship )

    (FWIW, I think the thread may have been deleted because the OP was worried she had posted too much about herself and people were figuring out who she is.) 

  • I'm so sorry you are going through that, MomsAE. I hope you have someone to reach out to. I will be praying for you, your situation, and the decisions you are having to make. ((hugs))

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