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Spicy Friday

Do you watch porn?  Does your DH?  Do you ever watch it together?

If you do watch it, do you have a favorite genre? 

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  • once in a blue moon we watch porn sometimes together sometimes seprately and no we do not have a favorite genre
  • I don't really enjoy it, though H does.  We tried watching some together a few weeks  ago and it did not go well.  It just felt awkward to me - plus, I think we have very different tastes when it comes to that stuff.

    I do, however, enjoy reading good stories from time to time. 

  • We've never watched it together, and don't see us in the future.  I don't know if he watches any, but I do every now and then if he is out of town and I'm in the mood. 
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  • We watched it together a long time ago. It was awkward and I have no desire to try that again. I know that he used to watch it in the past, but I have no idea if he still does. I will also watch it on occasion when he's out of town.
  • DH used to have quite an extensive porn collection, but not so much anymore.  I'm sure he still watches/reads some.  I'm more of a reader myself, but I would be open to watching a little porn together.
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    Neither of us are into porn at all.  Derek finds it too degrading.

    I could get behind some sexy stories though.

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  • DH had a collection and I had a few, plus some books. We watch alone, together, whatever. My only pet peeve is when I catch him online looking at stuff. I think that's so trashy, and I'm not sure why. If I caught him watching a movie, I'd be fine.
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  • DH does, and I do once in a while.  We have never watched it together, but I would watch it with him if he wanted me to.

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  • We use to watch it together, but we haven't in a while. We have a little stash that we both realized about a month ago was still packed away from the move, so guess neither of us have needed it. 
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  • I'm more likely to get my porn fix from romance novels than from video or the internet. I seriously don't think he looks at any.

    We did watch a movie together once - and it was so unintentionally hilarious that we just spent the whole time mocking it. So... not the desired effect.

  • imageraynes:

    Neither of us are into porn at all.  Derek finds it too degrading.

    I could get behind some sexy stories though.

     

    Raynes, try literotica.com!

    I can't pinpoint exactly what I dislike about porn.  I'm not really against it per se, but it just doesn't do much for me.  Truth be told, I think the real problem is the awful music!

    H mostly watches online now but he did have a video collection when we first met.  He accidentally put it into storage in some duffel bag at his PARENTS' house (along with a few rather embarassing toys) and I just know it's only a matter of time before they find it.  I really need to force him to go search for it, ugh.  

  • The hardcore stuff makes me laugh but sometimes we watch the soft stuff together (you know, the Friday night TV stuff... Red Shoe Diaries and whatnot) to get revved up.
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    Raynes, try literotica.com!

    Already aquainted.  ;)

     

    I guess our closest shared "porn" incident is listening to Pillars of the Earth on audiobooks.  We listened to is separately, but both commented about, um, stirrings, during the sex scenes.  Also?  I'm listening to another Ken Follet book, and holy poop that guy likes to write about sex.

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  • DH and I both do. We have watched it together and separately. However I prefer reading stories to watching videos.

    As far as the type goes, when we watch together it's usually couples. When he watches alone he likes panty/pantyhose/lingerie theme. (Usually girl on girl or girl solo)

    Also it has been my observation that men can learn a lot from watching girl on girl videos! Stick out tongue 

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  • I don't watch porn (I'd much rather read), but DH does. I don't know how often or anything, but he has his own laptop for a reason, haha. I don't think he watches it anywhere but online, but I'm not sure. 

    I think we've watched some in the past (nothing crazy, just late night TV stuff), but it makes me feel awkward to watch with him... I find myself wondering what turns him on that ISN'T me... totally psycho, I know. I'm not against him watching it, but I'd rather not watch with him for my own sanity. 

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  • imageMandeeFoFandee:

    I don't watch porn (I'd much rather read), but DH does. I don't know how often or anything, but he has his own laptop for a reason, haha. I don't think he watches it anywhere but online, but I'm not sure. 

    I think we've watched some in the past (nothing crazy, just late night TV stuff), but it makes me feel awkward to watch with him... I find myself wondering what turns him on that ISN'T me... totally psycho, I know. I'm not against him watching it, but I'd rather not watch with him for my own sanity. 

    Not psycho at all. I feel the same way. This is why I know that he watches, but I don't want to know about it and don't want to watch it together anymore. 

  • I also prefer reading, but we have watched some late night TV stuff together.  I don't mind and it can be fun, but neither of us are into anything real hardcore.
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