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tell me if i am wrong to be mad about this
2 friends are going to an event, that I also wanted to go to, they found tickets, I didn't, talked about it a few times, they say, oh get tickets, i finally found some, my sister backed out, i asked if i could ride/tag along with them, assuming, sure, why not, they are my friends, they tell me there is no room for me, so i just went ahead and sold the tickets, i'm not going to go now, even if i found someone else to go with me being that they apparently didn't want me there anyways
my feelings are definately hurt, if it was me in their shoes i would not have done that, i would have made room for the other person, somehow, i guess i just assume everyone is as nice as me
anyways, that is it, and i guess you find out who your real friends and aren't
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Re: tell me if i am wrong to be mad about this
Yeah, I am very hurt by the entire thing. The one friend I considered to be a VERY good/close friend, the other one is more of an acquantance/type friend. I'm just always so damn nice to everyone, especially the one I considered a very good friend, I would have NEVER done that to her, NEVER. They never came out and said, oh go with us, but from the way they both acted I just assumed they wanted me to go with them, wouldn't you have? I mean, heck one of the sent me the link to the tickets.
So, WWYD, drop it, or let the one you considered to be a very good friend know how you feel???
I can see your point.
But on the other side of the coin they could have said hey we don't have room in the car, but we still want you to go, so meet us there. They basically said, well, maybe you can find someone else to go there with and hang out. So, I take that as we really didn't want you there so why send me links to tickets and act all, oh it is so fun, go and then do that. Rude.
I just go back to the fact that this person is a very good friend and I wouldn't have done what she did to me to her. But everyone is different. Maybe she didn't see it the way I've taken it. I honestly wouldn't have even done that to the acquaintance friend. I'm just always very kind to people I know and would have made them feel like I wanted them included.
Well I can see your point too. Probably should've included that in my original post. It's definitely a sucky situation, and I'm sorry they made you feel unwanted. I hope that wasn't their intention!